The Unbreakable Black Man Podcast
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The Unbreakable Black Man Podcast
Friday Night Rambles VOL - 18 Feat: Billie & KayKay
Little boy, a little girl, shit, a little bathroom, yeah, a little kid. Which is kind of like it's weird. I don't want to share those.
SPEAKER_10:Yeah. I mean, think about if it's two girls, right? They want two boys at the end.
SPEAKER_06:When I grew up in Detroit, they did have that. But it was more like a definition. Yeah.
SPEAKER_02:Y'all ready?
SPEAKER_06:Oh, we can get to you in a moment. You don't have to leave his phone to this like.
SPEAKER_02:So on the intro, he like starts it. We're just kind of sitting not talking, and then he and then he'll introduce us. And that's when we talk.
SPEAKER_10:Thank you. Wow.
SPEAKER_14:Yeah, yeah, yeah. You're tuning in to the Unbreakable Black Man podcast with your host, Michael Terrell, and I'm so glad. So glad, so glad, so glad you're here. Yes. One, two, three, four, five. I'm your guy. But anyway, this is the Unbreakable Black Man Podcast, and I'm your host, Michael Terrell. And I'm so glad you're here. As you know, I'm always in the mix with the Bis Quick. And I have me the old, the new, and the shrewd. But we're gonna do what we do. And so, as we always do, we start with the old and end with the new. I should have been the local rapper, but for some odd reason I didn't make it. But um so as y'all see in the corner, we have Mr. James is in the building. And then also we have Mrs. Seven.
SPEAKER_04:One, two, three, four, five, six. Seven.
SPEAKER_13:Not the one, not the two, not the three, four, five, or six. Seven.
SPEAKER_14:Anywho. Alright. And then we have two new guests with us. And so these two new guests, I would love for each of you to take some time to introduce yourself.
SPEAKER_08:Well, I am Tammy. Hello, Tammy.
SPEAKER_14:Hello, Tammy.
SPEAKER_08:Hey Tammy.
SPEAKER_05:Ali is gonna be sexy cave.
SPEAKER_14:In sexy cave. So, how we do it on the Unbreakable Black Man podcast, we just a lot of times just have random things that we talk about. We don't have no set subjects. It a lot of times we talk about what's on our minds. Sometimes we talk about what we've been through, what we see the world going through, and we just have our opinions on it. You know, everybody has different opinions. You know, we a lot of times joke and kid kiki, you know, nothing too serious. We just love to see how other people really think and and really involve themselves in this world. Um, we always have uh different people on so we can get like different opinions. And even to the point to where I wanted to make sure, even with the unbreakable black man podcast, I wanted to have you know different people on here. Like the reason why I have James on, and the reason why I like having on is because edit. He is edit. I said your name again.
SPEAKER_04:Yes.
SPEAKER_14:Your name sounds too close to the fucking.
SPEAKER_13:Now I gotta sit here and edit that part.
SPEAKER_09:Edit, edit, edit, edit, edit.
SPEAKER_12:Don't edit no more. Did I change my Alice now? Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:Really? Wait, that's we got from Timmy. Alright, so so so so this is what we're gonna do, right? This is Billy.
SPEAKER_13:This is seven. Uh huh. Billy badass. And I'll figure this shit out in some way. She said, uh oh, she wants sexy K is about to go through a change.
SPEAKER_06:It'll probably change about 500 times.
SPEAKER_14:Alright, so so y'all will be delighted to know that every probably 15 minutes, we're gonna be introduced to somebody different. Cool beans.
SPEAKER_04:All right, great.
SPEAKER_12:So before we get started, I wanted to point something out. And for the person that before the video comes out, if you can't see this, you're not gonna be able to understand. But I want to point out the clear, if you look at the video, there's a clear divide where all of the black people are sitting on one side of the room. And no one wants to sit next to me. I even wore my shade shirt. And I'm just getting warmed up.
SPEAKER_07:No, it's funny.
SPEAKER_12:I just thought it was funny. I just thought it was funny.
SPEAKER_13:Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's funny. Oh my god. The damn divide was made a long time ago. Not in two.
SPEAKER_09:Right.
SPEAKER_04:Ah well. Paulina's cutting him no slip. Yeah. I'm just mad at it.
SPEAKER_06:And this is like whale sat in too. Like he always sits over there. Like you can tell that's his little So have y'all done podcasts before?
SPEAKER_04:Like, no.
SPEAKER_07:Really? Yeah. No. I was a little rave.
SPEAKER_12:Clearly. I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding.
SPEAKER_07:You know.
SPEAKER_12:I missed that.
SPEAKER_06:Like, what were you saying, Billy? What's your name? Billy. Billy. Billy.
SPEAKER_09:Billy.
SPEAKER_06:Okay.
SPEAKER_08:Billy. No, just Billy.
SPEAKER_09:Oh, not. Oh Lord.
SPEAKER_08:That doesn't have to see y'all.
SPEAKER_06:Okay, go ahead.
SPEAKER_07:Oh. Love you.
SPEAKER_06:I just think it's on my damn nerves.
SPEAKER_16:All right.
SPEAKER_05:Okay, what did you say? Billy. I'm so sorry. I didn't say that. I thought you were talking about it. Was there a question asked? What happened?
SPEAKER_14:Well, it was more so that I think that uh oh god.
SPEAKER_06:Her name is Shira.
SPEAKER_14:These names. Okay, so the number said um so seven was saying.
SPEAKER_05:I know it's hard not to say my name, say my name.
SPEAKER_14:Whenever you were around me, say beep. Let me stop. But anyway, um she was saying that asking you, like, have you guys did podcasting before? And you were saying no that y'all haven't. And then she was like, Well, you know, and then it just went down there.
SPEAKER_08:It went from there. You were down radio. It was a radio interview, but it I can't remember what it was. Oh, they were really nice. Oh shit, they were really, really nice. I just can't remember what it was.
SPEAKER_04:Oh, where y'all from? Where y'all came from? Oh, where from my mama and my dad?
SPEAKER_06:Okay, let's see. I'm East Atlanta, aggression road, French Over and L. But where you really from? I'm originally from Detroit. What up though?
SPEAKER_16:Where's where I'm originally from?
SPEAKER_06:BMF.
SPEAKER_16:BMF. Really?
SPEAKER_15:You automatically just a part of that. I knew Big.
SPEAKER_05:Yeah, I think out without it.
SPEAKER_15:I could beat me's eggs, you know. Like, come on, bro.
SPEAKER_14:But that's just like people from Atlanta. Everybody, if you're from Atlanta, if you taught somebody, yeah, sure.
SPEAKER_13:Me and him did sis. I'm like, come on, bro.
SPEAKER_14:Like Atlanta, Atlanta is small but big, you know, like you could be next door and still don't know your neighbor types things, but you could be across town and for some odd reason bump up to somebody like your ex or something. Like, damn, how?
SPEAKER_08:That is true though. That's very true. It is small in that way. Yeah.
SPEAKER_09:Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:I I I don't know about y'all, but I hate bumping in to old classmates. Hey, sorry, you know, because you know what real right now.
SPEAKER_12:The first thing you think is you better not be doing better than me.
SPEAKER_14:You better not. The funny thing about Facebook is you get to see that 85% of the people that was so-called doing so much better than you or was higher in status than you fell off the cliff. Like somebody did the Lee United, uh, Lee United's uh was that uh like that's how hard you got kicked. Because I see some of the I see some of the people that I desired back in the day. I'm like, damn. Damn. You was top five.
SPEAKER_07:You was top five.
SPEAKER_14:You was top five.
SPEAKER_04:But it would be like that. Yeah, it do be like that.
SPEAKER_08:But why got life be life with some people? They just yeah, it's a lot of karma coming back. You never know, like how they treated people. Now it's coming back on them.
SPEAKER_12:You know, it's crazy to see people that peak in high school. Yeah, that are like the athletes, like the then you and everyone's like, he's the man, obviously. Maybe looking great. Coke down.
SPEAKER_14:Yeah, and then but yeah, a lot of people are like still living in their high school days.
SPEAKER_06:That's what I would think about. Yes, they haven't even changed at all. Like it's some girls that I work with, they still act like mean girls, you know what I mean? Because that's how they used to be in high school. You're too old for that.
SPEAKER_04:It's like you're you're the same person, you haven't grown, you haven't like, you know, you're still gonna be like, I'm still me to my core. Like, I'm probably very dissimilar in a lot of ways, but you grow up, like you experience things or you wanna just be a different or a better person, like a different, not a different, you know what I'm trying to say.
SPEAKER_08:I know you evolve, so yeah, evolve because people do evolve. Do you feel some type of way of somebody still is holding a grudge from somebody from high school? Yeah, like if you just graduated, okay, but it's been like 20, 30 years later, and you still dislike the person because of what happened. Like when y'all were like kids, like you need to work on, yeah.
SPEAKER_06:Maybe because it's some hoes, it's on site.
SPEAKER_09:It's a whole high school for real.
SPEAKER_05:Yeah, which one bullying me real bad. If I see you, it's on grudge, yeah.
SPEAKER_14:I still I still have guy, I still have people that I know from high school that did certain things that made it to where like I don't give a fuck.
SPEAKER_05:Okay.
SPEAKER_14:If me and you sung Kumbaya, I'll never fuck with you.
SPEAKER_05:Yeah.
SPEAKER_12:Never fucking with you is one thing, but holding a grudge, of course, like I there's never like I'm not gonna warn to you.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, but you ain't gotta show up and be like, no, I'm not gonna be phony, but it's like you got you gonna say one wrong thing. Yeah, right around you got one wrong thing to say.
SPEAKER_12:You're talking about high school though.
SPEAKER_14:You're never gonna I still got that, I still got them emotions in my motherfucking. But how often just waiting to take this shit out.
SPEAKER_12:How often? When's the last time anybody has ran into someone that they went to high school with?
SPEAKER_13:I've never been.
SPEAKER_12:Not including friends, not including friends. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Social media mainly, like nah, not social media. Because like what's that? Uh what's holding a grudge for social media gonna do? Yeah, like I'm gonna DM you, like, but I'm saying you never see. If I see you, I'm gonna fuck you. Yeah, if nobody freaking right thing. Nobody. No, okay, I'm ready.
SPEAKER_08:Okay, I am so I feel like for me, like I remember what happened, but I could care less. Like, I mean, whatever. Like, I'll be in overlay in a overweight. Like I have so much more positive things going on in my life. I don't need to go back and and dig that up. And it's no shade to anybody who still has that those type of emotions in life. No shade.
SPEAKER_07:No, she's saying no shade to the shade.
SPEAKER_06:But no, it's like, you know, people be like, oh, you should just get over it. And I do agree with that, but it's like certain people, it's like if I see you, I'm I might get a little triggered. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_15:I can understand.
SPEAKER_12:I can understand that.
SPEAKER_15:I can understand that.
SPEAKER_04:That's normal. I remember like having these girls that was so mean. They weren't, yeah, they was mean. I was about to say they weren't that mean, but they were mean, and like um, this new girl had moved into the neighborhood, and we had like really hit it off and like playing together and whatever, whatever. And then the first day of school came. So this was like over the summer that I started knowing her. So I knew her first, and then school started, and like the cool girls like recruited her in, and and the our friendship was just over. Like, she acted like she didn't know me, and like that's something that yes, I remember it as a 43-year-old woman, but like I'm not gonna if I see her, and we're we're friends on social media, like we DM, it's cool, but like I'm not gonna open myself back up like that. Yeah, you know, I know what happened, but I could still, you know, like you're not causing me, I'm not letting you you know that's power.
SPEAKER_06:And I understand people change, like you know, you can change, but I think there's a lot of people they were assholes in high school, yeah. They assholes now, yeah. You know what I mean? So it's like some of them.
SPEAKER_08:And it also depends on what you what you went through in high school, because if you were bullied, of course, that that scar is a little bit deeper than like what other people have gone through.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, so I and I look at you different. I'll be like, oh yeah, you got kids now. Are they gonna do, you know, you know what you did to other, you know, kids, is that gonna happen? I don't want it to. Yeah, but that's the top you gotta think about it. Yeah, you know what?
SPEAKER_14:I was I was tissue soft in high school. I feel like bullying, I feel like bullying is not that bad. So I wasn't, I wasn't, I wasn't soft like in like I couldn't defend myself or fight for myself. But I always tried to like like avoid confrontation. Okay. Yeah, I'm the same. And so with me trying to avoid confrontation, it always gave the opportunity for the ones that figured out that I didn't want the confrontation. So they would, they would, they would consistently do it. So now it's like like like fuck with me now, motherfucker. Like, yeah, like I'm a whole different, I'm a whole different guy now. And that's why I'll be like, I'm petty Paul, I'm petty Peter, um I'm petty passionate with how I feel about things, you know what I mean? Anything that you wanna say, I'm like, man, go ahead and fucking and put it out there. I'm petty. Yeah. But it's like So if I see that nigga on the sorry, but if I see that nigga on the side of the road and I knew I had a spare fixing flat and everything, yeah, and I hope it's a puddle right there, so I can run over that puddle and nigga.
SPEAKER_06:That's true though. Sorry. But let us know, okay? But I feel where he's coming from, but I just wish I was in that place now mentally, back then. You know what I'm saying? Like I'm 43 years old now, feeling that way. Who gives a fuck? I needed to feel that way then.
SPEAKER_04:Then I tell you that too. Like, I was very like, I'ma stay away from the trouble. Like, you know, whatever. I remember like in fourth grade, no, fifth grade, like this new girl came to our school, and and everybody's like, yeah, she bad. She came from the bad school. She da-da-da. And she was like big. She was big. And why like her first day of school? I'm minding my business, playing on the playground. They like, such and such want to fight you. I'm like, for what? Like, what I don't even know her. She wanna fight you in the bathroom. Me and my scared self, the only person I ever fighting my brother. And I went to the principal.
SPEAKER_07:That's good for you. Good for you. I went to the principal today? I'm like, bitch, what?
SPEAKER_08:You said you think bullying is good. I want to get back to that. I heard what you said. I know you've been dying to get back to that. What did he say? We said he thinks bullying is good. Well, there's nothing wrong with bullying.
SPEAKER_12:I I can agree with him though. There's a way. There's a way to do it. Like, uh now, of course, like So you were a bully. That's what you're telling me.
SPEAKER_05:That's what you're telling. You were a bully? Oh no.
SPEAKER_12:I fucked with people. Like, that's what you do.
SPEAKER_05:Not bullying.
SPEAKER_12:Do you not think that do you not think that I got fucked with? Right. That's why you bully. Like, um, what the fuck? Yeah. That's what you're saying.
SPEAKER_06:So you should that was a way to develop tough skin, is what you you're saying? Yeah, absolutely.
SPEAKER_12:Absolutely. Absolutely.
SPEAKER_06:Did you like beat up people or you just jumped?
SPEAKER_12:No, no, no.
SPEAKER_06:That's what I'm talking about, like, you know, like what type of bully?
SPEAKER_12:Like it would be fights sometimes, but like, not really, but like, because there would be some people that you just get up under their skin and they win up. And then they get disrespectful and it's like, well, hold on. I was fucking with you. Why is that?
SPEAKER_06:You have to think there's a fine line. You don't know what that person could be sensitive about, what they're going through at home.
SPEAKER_14:You don't care. I bully my daughter.
SPEAKER_06:Yes, he does. What?
SPEAKER_04:He does.
SPEAKER_14:That ass.
SPEAKER_06:And his uncle trying to get her to have thick skin, but you don't think that can backfire?
SPEAKER_14:No. You think she's gonna put up with shit? Moving forward? Yeah. My my my daughter, my daughter, my daughter is very strong-minded. But I also give her the love that she needs, too.
SPEAKER_06:Well, I'm about to say it is a bad thing.
SPEAKER_14:Yeah, yeah. I give her a chance. I give her I give her a lot of I give her a lot of love too. Yeah. I give her a lot of love. But at the same at the same time, like I know that the world's gonna like.
SPEAKER_08:I feel that's smart. Yeah, true.
SPEAKER_14:I don't I don't want you to feel like to deal with the assholes that you gotta be on a thousand different medications to deal with the assholes that you gotta, you know, go to a secret place and cry and all of a sudden, nah, stand up to this pussy.
SPEAKER_06:Well, that's how I am with my daughter. Like, no, you fight, you know what I'm saying? You know, I was like, always make them hit you first. That way it's self-defense. You know what I'm saying? I tell her, you know, and don't give a fuck about what nobody thinks. You know what I mean?
SPEAKER_08:But but I mean, as a teenager, that's really hard because you're still discovering who you are, so you're insecure about your body changing. So it's it's hard to not care about what people make.
SPEAKER_01:Especially now, can y'all imagine social media? Oh my god, oh my god.
SPEAKER_04:And then they do all the filters, so by the time you see them in person, you're like, wait, who is this? Think of all the videos because they want to look you know perfect.
SPEAKER_12:Think of think of all the videos you see of people that are just like imagine if you were outside right now and you were like just looking around, like looking at the ground, and I just record you and I go, look at this fucking loser. Like a lot of people do that.
SPEAKER_08:They do that. They do that. That's just weird.
SPEAKER_12:I don't know how many times I've been recording.
SPEAKER_08:Yeah, yeah. And that's a form of bullying, I believe. That's the one because it goes viral.
SPEAKER_12:That's a weird form. That's not real bullying, that's gay bullying. Yeah, that's it. You gotta do it, yeah. You gotta do it in person. You gotta get in. You gotta see the person like lose the light in their eyes.
SPEAKER_14:That is that is that is when when somebody pulls out that phone and tries to bully you through the phone. To me, it's like a a way of being protected while you bully.
SPEAKER_05:Yeah, because you real gas.
SPEAKER_14:I can't I can't I know that I can't just off and whoop your ass. Right. Because you got me on film. Now everybody sees that you bullying me. But in this victim mentality, they're gonna be like, oh, he put his hands on you. But but literally, he's beating me up mentally.
SPEAKER_04:Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_14:Nobody gives a damn about how he's beating me up. He's making me feel like it's taunting.
SPEAKER_04:It's like very wants you to do something. And I'm like, it's provoking.
SPEAKER_14:I tell people all the time, like, the world, the world is very secure now because we have the military, we have police. I said the scary, I said, you know, everybody talk about scary times. You know, the scary times was the wild, wild west. When you could be out in the middle of the place and somebody could rob and kill you, and nobody will know nothing. There's no fingerprints, there's no camera, there's no nothing. If you walk past somebody, you better respect this motherfucker, because this motherfucker might be a killer. But now in these days, you could be walking next to a killer and pull that phone out and be like, you wouldn't shoot me now. You won't shoot me now. You won't shoot me now.
SPEAKER_15:You know?
SPEAKER_14:Yeah.
SPEAKER_12:And we sit there and watch it, and you go, shoot him, shoot him.
SPEAKER_03:He's going violent.
SPEAKER_08:So like, if that were me, right.
SPEAKER_14:Yes, keyboard gangster.
SPEAKER_08:Exactly. Yeah, tons of crazy. Yeah. Social media. I'm happy we didn't have social media. And it was a time like cameras.
SPEAKER_12:I don't know about you guys, but like I first got on Instagram like right when it got started, right around like um 2012, maybe. And it was there was no influencers. No. That was not a thing. It was people just being people.
SPEAKER_08:It was just like when I joined, it was people posting pictures of their wrist like food.
SPEAKER_12:With kitty filters, the the worst filters.
SPEAKER_06:You can always tell like the OG. I always use Nashville filters. Now you can look like a totally different person. Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:So what what what really what really makes me laugh is when, like, you know, you might see on Facebook and all these different sites and dating sites and any site that you have, right? It's crazy because I hear this from my female friends as well, right? I know that they use filters for everything. I did not know that the men are doing it too.
unknown:Really?
SPEAKER_03:Why are you doing that as a man? You trying to give yourself cheaper.
SPEAKER_14:But that's what I'm trying to say. Like, what they call it, the the the baby filter where it like it takes your flaws away.
SPEAKER_08:I don't know you like I don't know you like a man.
SPEAKER_12:Have you heard of this thing called mewing that men do? What is mewing at? Turn the light on real quick. I'm gonna show you. Watch. It's really what you suck in your cheeks and you bite your own cheeks. What? And all right, watch. I'll show you. It's so gay. It's so fucking gay. I can't wait to see this. Oh, hell god, I'm gonna bite it.
SPEAKER_08:Yeah, let me wait.
SPEAKER_14:Oh, okay. Uh-oh, uh, I can't. Uh, uh, uh, all right, right there, right there. It's uh-uh, that little remote right there. Yep, hit light on at the top top. Oh. Bam.
SPEAKER_07:Bright light, right light.
SPEAKER_14:Bright light.
SPEAKER_07:Wait, what's happening?
SPEAKER_08:He's about to show us a filter. Oh my god.
SPEAKER_07:Oh my god, that looks so my crazy. Okay, what what is the what is the point of that? What is the point?
SPEAKER_14:It said that's a pose that guys do now in in pictures.
SPEAKER_12:It's supposed to give you jaw lines.
SPEAKER_04:Oh my, like a contour. It's contour for me.
SPEAKER_14:So like the next one. Over. Oh, yep, right there. Yeah. Yeah, like oh man. Mewing. Mewing.
SPEAKER_01:I have never heard of that.
SPEAKER_14:That's just like I I call it like a lot of guys like the peacock too.
SPEAKER_01:Wait, what? Peacock, so, so yeah, I'm gonna put you in that. Y'all give me the hiccups.
SPEAKER_14:Come here, girl. I'm gonna put you in a peacock. I'm gonna put you in a peacock. But you know, it's the it's the name. It's the male peacock that does the lifting and the feathers that. And so the more that the pretty, like the the more colorful the fle the feathers are and the more that he can vibrate itself, the more. So they call it when a guy tries to impress a female with the things that he does, he's peacocking. And so, like, if he's wearing a whole bunch of jewelry, got rings all on his fingers, got got the pain in his head, like.
SPEAKER_07:Maybe comment, but maybe they don't care. They just try to show you. Well, you say you don't like it.
SPEAKER_14:No, no, I mean, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not attracted to a guy. So I don't care what a guy does. I know that. I'm just saying, I wouldn't, I I mean, I feel like all men and even women, all of people try to peacock. You know, everybody has a form of. You know what I'm saying? Like, like I tell people all the time, like, if, if, if, if there were no women in the world, do you believe that I would have a nice house or or or clean carpets? Or I can live in a cardboard box.
SPEAKER_05:Fancy taper towels. They were lovely.
SPEAKER_06:These are nice. Oh, they were very soft, you know. But I get it. Everybody does want to feel admired. Yeah, yeah, yeah. There we go. There we go. If you say you don't, you will lie. Yeah, absolutely. You want to feel sexy, you wanna feel attractive.
SPEAKER_14:That's why I kind of understood. I don't know if y'all follow like uh like certain spice, but Curry. I'm sorry. No, no, no, no, no, no. You that's exactly where I was going. And a lot of people don't understand where she's coming from, but even as a guy, I get it.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:No matter, no matter what. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. I need context. What are you talking about? Okay, no problem. Uh so Steph Curry, you know Steph Curry is the guy that plays basketball. All right.
SPEAKER_12:Are you talking about what his wife's been saying?
SPEAKER_14:Yeah, about how she's like, you know, she wants to be desired. She always sees, you know, women chasing after.
SPEAKER_12:But didn't she say she didn't want to have kids either?
unknown:Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:She said she wanted to have that's so weird to say. No, it's she wanted to f I guess she said she said that she wanted to follow her dreams, you know, like uh be I think she wanted to be an actress and something else.
SPEAKER_04:And I didn't take it as though she didn't want kids at all. I took it like she wanted to like experience her life a little bit, like, you know, she went to school, right?
SPEAKER_12:How is she not experiencing life? She's married to a millionaire.
SPEAKER_06:That's what it's before.
SPEAKER_04:I think she's still married.
SPEAKER_06:Mary is a step curry, and that's probably what she feels her identity is right. Who am I? Why I want to pursue the things that I dreamed about instead of just being his wife, right? The mother under his shadow.
SPEAKER_14:But but but but but but with all that money.
SPEAKER_12:How is that such a bad thing?
SPEAKER_14:She could do anything that she wants to, really.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, but that's not I've been around money so I'm I ain't even when you've been around money so long, it's kind of like it probably will get old. Like you doesn't fulfill you like you think that it would, I think that it would, because I ain't got no money right now. But you know what I'm saying? Somebody who's been around it for all that time, she would be here for a long ass time. Yeah, you know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_04:They were together like when they were teenagers.
SPEAKER_14:Like, like, like if she was like, I want to be an actress, you literally can buy a whole fucking production team.
SPEAKER_08:But I think that's her point. She's just like she could do it because of her husband and stuff for Curry, versus it, oh, she's actually talented on her own. But it's like, oh, Steph Curry's wife, Steph Curry's wife. Right. I think she just wants, like they were saying, she just wants her own identity. Like I do.
SPEAKER_14:Man, if they were home with my husband. If they said if as long as I could do whatever I want to, they'd be like, Oh, yeah, this is. Who I'm trying to think. Why I say I'll just say Oprah. I'm trying to think of somebody who's butt ugly. Stedman's the man. But I wouldn't care if she was butt ugly and they were like, oh, that's such and such white. I meant husband. And I'd be like, yeah, I sure am. As I pull out my card and I start spending it on everything that I need to. And I think it's like I said, I get I get her though.
SPEAKER_04:It's always like a grass is greener on the other side thing too. Like, like I probably wish I had her life and she wished she had my life, you know, because I didn't have a child right out of college or right out of high school. Like I worked, traveled a little bit, partied for a really long time, and then you know, you know back on that party. Yeah.
SPEAKER_09:Yeah. Yeah. Just kidding.
SPEAKER_16:Just kidding. Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:I missed that one. I missed that one. Her past party life.
SPEAKER_08:No, we're kidding.
SPEAKER_09:They know her party day. Jitterbug.
SPEAKER_12:They know her party day. I know what the cacklin means. You know? Is that recruit- Oh, okay.
SPEAKER_04:But yeah, like, so I want to segue us because your not the last podcast, but the one that I was on the phone. There was like a topic.
SPEAKER_11:Uh-oh.
SPEAKER_04:And you had a topic. They kind of all relate. You know, well, you had a topic you you heard about in the world.
SPEAKER_09:Edit. Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_07:Oh, I said your name. Okay. What is your name? Right now it can be KK. Right now. Oh no.
SPEAKER_16:KK, KK, KK, okay.
SPEAKER_07:Okay. Okay, KK.
SPEAKER_12:I was just saying, why just two? No, but I'm just playing. I'm just playing. Oh my god. I'm just joking. It's just joke. What? I'm drinking Mexican meat. I'm a racist.
SPEAKER_07:And he has a shotgun sure for cracking. And I'm like, yes. It's all affront.
SPEAKER_12:It's all affront. I'm the fanos of white men. You cannot touch me.
SPEAKER_08:What were you guys talking about before?
SPEAKER_04:Oh, I wanted to segue. So, yes, what were we talking about?
SPEAKER_07:So my god.
SPEAKER_04:Show's over. Okay. All right. 5432 Wait. Hey, Kiki. Yeah. So I feel like you had a little topic. Uh oh. We were talking about what we talk about.
SPEAKER_06:What we were talking about. I mean the main thing that we got from it was like realizing when you can be woman enough or to say you gotta say the topic. What was the okay, okay?
SPEAKER_04:Here go the topic. Okay. So you done been with your man for a minute. You know, y'all, you know, y'all. Yes. No, you don't keep done. I want to know where you get. You been with your man for a minute. You know what I'm saying? He he did a lot to be with you. Uh-huh. Like a lot. He moved, you know. He's a good man, Savannah. He a good man, Savannah.
SPEAKER_13:He's a good man.
SPEAKER_04:And you know, y'all just doing y'all thing. And so sometimes, like. Sometimes when um it's been a minute, you know, things not get old, but you know, you kind of lose like a little bit of that fire.
SPEAKER_06:Especially it was like, okay, so we were in a long distance relationship for four years. And then he moved down here from Detroit. And so it was like when we would see each other, we still saw each other like every month. But it was like, you know, when we see each other, it's ready. It's gone. You know what I'm saying? You know, he would do the little sweet stuff, sending me flowers, sending me gifts. He's just a good guy. You know, he still is. He still is a great guy. But it's like, you know, since he moved down here to Atlanta, you know, he's been here for a year. It'll be a year in November.
SPEAKER_08:It's been that long.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, it's been that long. So it's like, you know, right, right. Y'all gotta kill me. I feel like it took forever. Sorry. Um It's like since he's gotten here with like the day today, it can get a little um mundane, like a little routine. What you mean? Like what he be doing that you Like he just he wants to just I knew he loved sports, but he loves sports. So he he'll watch sports every time they come on. He'll watch baseball, football, basketball, two squirrels fighting. He'll he'll he'll watch anything and I'm gonna do that. But I knew that about him beforehand, but it's like say that again.
SPEAKER_14:I knew I knew we were gonna do that.
SPEAKER_06:I knew that about him before. But now that I see him doing it every day, it's like, damn, he really is obsessed. But I have to catch myself and be like, okay, I knew this about him. But it's like I'm complaining even though I knew it about him. So that's something I have to Yeah, but as far as like losing the spark, I be like trying to like, you know, well, let's do this. Well, as long as we're back before seven before the game comes on. And what time we come and talk about doing this because it's two games that come on.
SPEAKER_12:I don't even think. Oh yeah, so you're dating the man basically. You're dating the pretty much like a real game. He's uh it now it's good. He's got his own boundaries, he's uh and you knew. Yeah, and and God forbid a man ha what you're complaining right now is about a man having interests.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah.
SPEAKER_12:You probably have interests.
SPEAKER_06:I do. And like he'll and he's supported me, and then like he knows that I like murder mystery and like people getting, you know. So he took me to a crazy.
SPEAKER_12:He's gonna end up in a body bag before kick-off. Figure this shit out before half time.
SPEAKER_06:You didn't hear this? Right, no. That's why my name is KK.
SPEAKER_12:Um before the opening pitch. So it's over with.
SPEAKER_06:But you know, he's very, you know, uh wow, I really have to, I cannot be the victim. No, you know what I mean? And I think that I'm so used to being the victim in so many situations. I'm just being very transparent right now, you know, like I ain't no victim in this situation. You got a good man. But I do, but at the same time, it's funny you said that. It's like I do want to realize that I have a good man and appreciate him, but that doesn't mean I'm just gonna let you run over me either. Like, how do I say what I want? You know, like communicate what I want without sounding or being ungrateful. Like, that does just because you like sports doesn't mean I want you to ride on the couch and watch sports all the time. How do I say, baby?
SPEAKER_08:I want to when you I have I just have one question before I say something. Is it just football or is it basketball? Is it baseball every yeah? Two girls. Football season ends. Two squirrels fighting.
SPEAKER_04:But it's just all the time. I think that's excessive. And I'ma just make a real quick. I know you're like, I think that's excessive. I think he should have his interests. Yeah. Of course. But like, it's gotta be a point where he agrees, like, okay, maybe we can either watch it together or maybe we can still do da-da-da. Like, here's my sports that like are just a it's okay, but the sports I really want to watch, I need to.
SPEAKER_06:And he does try to do that. He does try to do that. I guess the problem for me, and that's why I admit that I'm spoiled. Say that. Strike that from the record. I am spoiled, and it's so crazy. Like, it helps this is helping me because when I hear myself outline, I'm like, damn, bitch. Like I don't understand his obsession with it, but guess what? It's not my place to understand. You know what I'm saying? That's what he likes. Right. Let me ask you something.
SPEAKER_12:Uh did uh when you so obviously you've seen him watch games, whatever game it may be. He gets excited, right?
SPEAKER_06:I'm a child, yes.
SPEAKER_12:So you see that that that's exciting for him.
SPEAKER_07:Yes.
SPEAKER_12:Has there ever been a thought to have been like maybe I can try and get him? Because that'd be more time with you and him together, try and learn the game.
SPEAKER_06:He he does, and I believe when I ask questions, he doesn't make me feel like I'm stupid. Like you know, like he does explain it to me. Like I said, y'all, it's my ass. It's me.
SPEAKER_12:I was gonna say, you're not helping me.
SPEAKER_06:Like, that's why I said, like, this is really helping me. Like, wow, I be complaining and shit.
SPEAKER_14:Cause you really gotta kinda that's the beginning of the fight, though. When you could realize at least you have that self-awareness going on that might not be the other person, it might be you. Some people deflect so hard and don't want to even look in the mirror. But you know that thing that Michael said a long time ago with that looking in the mirror. Like a lot of time, a lot of times when I look at flaw in another person before I look at that flaw in that person, I always be like, Well, what is it with me that makes me not connect in this way? Because like I was just listening to you, and I'm like, man, the coolest fucking thing about sports is that you can go to the bar and watch sports. And you don't have to even watch the sport, you can just be happy to be in the environment. You know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_12:You can switch up teams mid-game. You can one person you go, I'm cheering for the lions, and then the lions start losing, you go, fuck the lions.
SPEAKER_00:I don't even mean to do that. I forgot you said you're from Detroit.
SPEAKER_12:You know what? I might as well say the fucking Falcons because they're about as ass as anybody. Not this year.
SPEAKER_09:Hold on.
SPEAKER_14:Thank you. Thank you. But I don't watch the coolest thing that you could do, probably, like, especially if y'all watch sports, like, you know, like if you, you know, a lot of things you want reciprocated, right? And you would hope that you would have a person that will reciprocate, right? So the coolest thing, right? If whatever the fuck team that he likes, right? Just not even a game here. Just surprise him with a game that's a state over. You know, and say, hey, I got tickets to such and such, and I want to do a road trip, and I want to do this. You know, like that's how that, you know, a lot of times, like the thing I be feeling like with women, women have the control of the car. The man is the engine, but women have the control of the car. So a lot of times when you look at the issue that's really going on, a lot of times you can control the outcome of it. So if you feeling like at some point that you feel drained or it's not exciting no more, make that motherfucker exciting because we're gonna do whatever y'all tell us to do.
SPEAKER_06:No, because he's like, Hey man, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not turning. No, turn James's mic off.
SPEAKER_12:No, listen, listen.
SPEAKER_09:Listen.
SPEAKER_12:I'm not trying to hear any of that shit because I'm gonna do it. I'm about to, I'm about to. While Mike's over here talking about, oh well, women drive the car, they drive on ball tires. They don't know what they're doing. They drive on ball tires constantly. They run out of oil, they don't know what's going on.
SPEAKER_15:Take that shirt off.
SPEAKER_05:Take that shit off. Wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute. What do you mean to like?
SPEAKER_12:That shit off. I'm the sweetest taboo, baby. I'm the taboo.
SPEAKER_06:Put your sign. Smooth up her. What's your sign, James?
SPEAKER_12:I'm a Gemini.
SPEAKER_06:Oh, hell no. I knew it. I knew it. I knew it. Oh, she said. I'm leaving the show. Take KKK out.
SPEAKER_00:KK out.
SPEAKER_06:He's out. Uh-uh. I was never here. Brickly's dad is a Gemini. Oh shit.
SPEAKER_12:Who is?
SPEAKER_06:Oh, my child.
SPEAKER_12:Oh, okay.
SPEAKER_04:Shout out to Bricklyn and her father. Right?
SPEAKER_12:You must have put him through some bad things.
SPEAKER_01:I'm just playing.
SPEAKER_12:I'm talking about the Gemini.
SPEAKER_06:Oh, yeah. Gemini's are just.
SPEAKER_12:So what is just a high? Or just what? Oh, yeah. What's yours? Oh.
SPEAKER_06:I'm a TARS. Okay. Yes.
SPEAKER_12:Stubborn.
SPEAKER_14:The bull. Stubborn as a motherfucker.
SPEAKER_13:Damn. Okay.
SPEAKER_06:I am stubborn. But see, that's the thing. My boyfriend, his birthday is the day after mine. I'm May 8th. He's May 9th. And we are so freaking different.
SPEAKER_04:Wow. But the men signs of yours are different. Like me and um Amir, we were the same sign, but like he was so different. I'm over here. But like I feel like you're, you know how you look at the chart and it's like you're most compatible. Like, what is that sign?
SPEAKER_06:I'm supposed to be compatible with like is it your sister's sign?
SPEAKER_12:That's what whatever's like right across.
SPEAKER_04:Yeah, Scorpio is my opposite.
SPEAKER_12:Like Sagittarius is my sister's own.
SPEAKER_04:Michael is Scorpio. Oh.
SPEAKER_06:Let me sit over there. But no. Scorpio is my art. And I'm supposed to be compatible with Capricorn, uh, Virgo, and Pisces, but I can't stand Virgos. Pisces too emotional.
SPEAKER_12:Virgos are annoying.
SPEAKER_07:Virgos are Virgo.
SPEAKER_12:Fucking annoying Virgos.
unknown:Shut up.
SPEAKER_07:Yeah. Virgos are critical.
SPEAKER_12:They seem to always be autistic. It's like. We support the autistic. I do too. I do too.
SPEAKER_14:But they're just annoying sometimes.
SPEAKER_06:Are you a May or a June, Gemini?
SPEAKER_14:Oh look.
SPEAKER_06:Okay, because May, I can tolerate a little bit more. Okay.
SPEAKER_04:June, I've been on show. I see. I'm more of the June. Like Gemini is my sister's sign. I'm most compatible with Gemini. And then it's Libra. And those signs, men or women, I all I can always like talk. But I can talk to anybody. I feel like Aquarius is like anybody.
SPEAKER_06:That's a mom.
SPEAKER_04:Yeah, my mom.
SPEAKER_09:Oh, you're my story.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, she's January Aquarius.
SPEAKER_04:Dory's January Aquarius.
SPEAKER_06:Oh, and see, that's the thing. I grew up around Capricorn. Oh. So, you know, that's probably why I'm a little selfish and crazy. And I'm not trying to be fine. Like they, like my mom, my grandmother, they were very narcissistic.
SPEAKER_04:Oh. Very.
SPEAKER_06:You know what I mean? So I think I've gotten not all of it, but you black. Like I don't know how to think outside of my feelings and don't even realize it.
SPEAKER_14:Is everybody narcissistic now?
SPEAKER_06:I don't think it's narcissistic.
SPEAKER_14:Is everybody everybody says like I don't think I think that we use that word a little too loosely?
SPEAKER_08:And gaslighting.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah. Oh yeah, gaslighting. What's another word I just get that a lot?
SPEAKER_12:What's another word? Is that what you just said? Do you get that a lot? No, I don't.
SPEAKER_06:I don't think you're selfish though. I think everybody can be. I don't think that I'm just a selfish person. Just like what I explained to y'all before. That's selfish.
SPEAKER_14:How many, how many siblings do you have?
SPEAKER_06:I have three sisters. But you grew up with. No, I grew up by myself.
SPEAKER_04:So she was like an only child.
SPEAKER_14:So I I I grew up, I grew up an only child for 13 years. And even with that, that I still felt like an only child because I was, by the time my sister was born, I was being raised. I moved with my grandparents. And even with them, I was like the only child again. And so I still I still have those penis.
SPEAKER_08:I do have a question because my boyfriend told me that he lived with his grandparents as well. Is that something with men like you don't want to live like with your like why why is it more comfortable with your partner?
SPEAKER_14:I don't want to get too personal. No, no, no, no, man. I I I love talking about that. But um, so for me, I was saying I was I was raised, I was raised by my mother. And you know, when you're young, you you you tend to not be with the best person, and so as I got older, I started to be a little rebellious and fearless. You are if you're being abusive to my mother, and as I get older and I start to recognize that, I could fight too. You know, and and and it starts to be drama at the house. Sometimes it's best when the kid can go and stay with the grandparents. I have the like people be like, nigga, where are you from? I had I just had a vendor the other day, the flower vendor, he was like, uh, he said, man, I was confused. I thought I was talking to a white guy.
SPEAKER_11:I was like, damn.
SPEAKER_12:Yeah, I caught yeah. I caught I I caught a little bit of that conversation. I was like, I was like, what the fuck? I was I I was looking like 50 Cent. Like, why am I taking trays? Like, God damn.
SPEAKER_14:But but growing up with my grandparents, I had got stability, yeah, I had got structure, I had care, I had loving, I had everything because like what I everybody, my my you don't know y'all. Well, whatever my grandparents were in the past, I don't know it. But as them, as mature adults, they took good care of me, but then at the same time, they let me be adventurous to learn myself into to to Yeah, so that's how I am with my daughter now. Like I'm like, here, I'll help you if you you fuck up, but go do it on your own. Like, I want you to learn these things because if I'm not here, I need you to know how to handle it. And that is how my grandparents did it. They they w they, I guess, because they were old, they're like, nigga, I ain't chasing at me.
SPEAKER_04:So would you say you're still adventurous?
SPEAKER_14:Let's talk. Let's explore that. I do, I do. I I still I still love to try different things. I still love to go different places. Try different things. I do.
SPEAKER_07:Can y'all say this? Really?
SPEAKER_12:And what types of things would those be? Let's take pineapple. Let's take a break. Let's take a break. We gotta take a break?
SPEAKER_02:Pineapple. What time is it? It's machine. It's 11 o'clock.
SPEAKER_08:It means 10.07.
unknown:Oh.
SPEAKER_08:She has a curfew at 11 a.m. She it's 11 p.m. She has to leave at 11. Oh. She's not leaving. We're not leaving. No, no, not just let her be waiting at the same time.
SPEAKER_14:So normally, normally, normally, normally we record for two hours and then when we hit an hour, we take a little break. Is that cool?
SPEAKER_04:That's fine. You ain't got another minute.
SPEAKER_09:Last time he's sitting up here talking about it.
SPEAKER_14:You know what? You know. Don't be mad when I try to act like Stefan.
SPEAKER_15:Like normally I sound like Steve.
SPEAKER_14:Normally I sound like Steve. I got no, I got I got small nasal passages. You know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_15:So when I'm when I'm on when I'm on my podcast, I wanna sound sexy, damn it. Hello.
SPEAKER_14:Yes. Well, the bathroom. The very white baby.
SPEAKER_05:Okay.
SPEAKER_06:This is good. I want us to like re-read this. We not broke the ice movie.
SPEAKER_15:Oh, so we're taking our break.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, we're gonna take the break. Okay, we're gonna take a break.
SPEAKER_08:Ten minutes you said?
SPEAKER_06:Like this is like class. Oh, I'm about to get further. I didn't exactly make her leave. She's like, Lord.
SPEAKER_08:Nobody will see me. She said, don't you? Please don't do it. She's like, but I'm a good guard dog. I protected y'all from the cats.
SPEAKER_15:She's a wonderful guest. Thank you for everything.
SPEAKER_14:Thank you for your service. Thank you for your service.
SPEAKER_07:Jesus.
SPEAKER_12:She's a dog.
SPEAKER_03:She's a good dog. She's a good dog.
SPEAKER_12:Alright, so with zero context.
SPEAKER_04:This is like the best podcast guest. I feel like we should come back.
SPEAKER_07:Totally connected. Totally. Totally wack.
SPEAKER_14:So I don't know. I don't know if seven has come.
SPEAKER_09:Finally.
SPEAKER_07:Finally.
SPEAKER_14:It took it it it it it took a couple of shots in um woozoo to make me remember. But anyway. So so so so let's let's let's real quick let's let's let's kind of like rear back to say what you were talking about so we can get this whole Krabacle back going again.
SPEAKER_08:No, we were we were talking about what we were talking about celebrity crushes.
SPEAKER_14:Get your pass come across.
SPEAKER_08:Just spit that shit out. But when we have passes, would you give your partner a pass with their celebrity crush? Like if they ever happen to be in the same person.
SPEAKER_14:Yeah, you say that now, dude. But but the thing is, but the thing is, that's just if I I feel like I feel like it's cool for the person, like for for for it's easier for it to happen to a woman because a man will do those type of things. So if a man is horny and he wants you and you're available, he's going to do it. And so that makes it a little bit easier for you to get to your crust compared to me getting to mine. But but but it's you're talking to breakable blackness. Ain't that what y'all do? But anyway, I don't know. Ain't that how y'all do that shit? I don't know. Look, yeah, it's me.
SPEAKER_13:I thought it was supposed to be.
SPEAKER_15:Equality. Yeah, equality.
SPEAKER_14:I think this is like a big thing.
SPEAKER_15:Yeah, this is a quack.
SPEAKER_14:What did you do? Quack, quack, quack, quack. But what I'm just trying to say is, like, if it is just as good as good for the goose as the is for the gand type shit. You know what I'm saying? So I in my in my mind, I won't feel bad. Like, if you if you got a chance to be with your crush and I got a chance to be with mine, hey, shout out to you.
SPEAKER_02:What if what if it's body? What if you be with?
SPEAKER_04:That's what I'm saying. I'm just talking about straight. What does the past entail?
SPEAKER_06:You're talking about going all the way, man. Yeah, I can't get.
SPEAKER_14:I'm just saying this as far as you go, I go.
SPEAKER_05:I guess you ain't going no fucking way.
SPEAKER_13:So there we go. There we go. There we go.
SPEAKER_06:It's like that's weird about me too. Like I can do it, but you not like that, but like even if I like to do like an armless flirt.
SPEAKER_15:Like I just wanted to.
SPEAKER_14:It's a two-way street. It's a two-way street. It's always a two-way street. You know, you know, you know, even in the good book, right? It even say, you know, do add there you go. Because you because you know, you know, if if just as much as you would enjoy something happening to you, if you were sitting there watching somebody doing it to me.
SPEAKER_15:You're not gonna feel the same way. You're not gonna, you're not, you're not gonna feel the same way. You're not gonna feel the same way about it. I'm not.
unknown:I'm not.
SPEAKER_14:Alright, that's all I'm saying. That's all I'm saying.
SPEAKER_08:Not to like be on your side because you're my friend. But I get what I'm saying, I guess like for you, you know how far you would go, so you feel like it's okay if I do it, but if he doesn't, you wouldn't want to be like, no, I would go.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, you know what it is too, and I'm gonna say it. Women make it sound so fucking cute. You know, if I had the chance, I was so fucked, Denzel. You know what I'm saying? But I'm like when a guy says man and I fucked the shit out of Holly Berry. You know what I'm saying? It's more, it just sounds different, but it is the same.
SPEAKER_14:Like it, like, like, like how like how it was cool as hell when Stella got her goddamn guru back. But when Paul gets his guru back, it's perverted. It's perverted.
SPEAKER_08:I mean, that's kind of true though. Y'all, I watched that movie for the very first time. I had never seen it. I finally watched it maybe like a month ago, and I was pissed off the whole time. I was like, that could be my nephew when.
SPEAKER_07:Because what did he write 9 in the movie? I think it was like 20. Yeah, yeah. I wish my child was.
SPEAKER_15:She was like, what, 40, 50?
SPEAKER_14:With a 40-something-year-old woman, yeah. She was 40-50?
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, she's about 40 something short. And he was 20?
unknown:I was here for it.
SPEAKER_14:If he wanted to, if he wanted for her. If he wanted to go in the jungle and find a cougar that is his motherfucking pro.
SPEAKER_08:I mean, that's cool, but I guess I was relating it to my nephew.
SPEAKER_14:Why though? But but life is.
SPEAKER_08:I think his nephew was in that situation. I was thinking when my nephew was 20 and he came to me like, oh, this is my girlfriend. She wore it. I'm like, the fuck the hell you want my nephew.
SPEAKER_14:Alright, hold up, hold on. All right, that's so fucking sick. Growing up, KK, what was your biggest gap?
SPEAKER_06:Oh, honey. You mean that I actually, oh Lord, my boyfriend gonna see the long time. I always like oh.
SPEAKER_14:Put it out there on the put it. Put it out there. She has it.
SPEAKER_06:This is like they might get charges, but I was about. Ooh, y'all ready for this one?
SPEAKER_14:Yeah, that the unbreakable team was 30.
SPEAKER_06:Ooh.
SPEAKER_14:Yeah, 15 year gap.
SPEAKER_06:30? Yeah. And I would I would skip school and he picked me up and said, What's that? Uh oh my god. But that's what I'm saying. Like, when I hear like these like stories and stuff, and people be like, oh, well, back then it was different. It kind of like, wait a minute, was I there?
SPEAKER_12:So let me ask you that. Let me ask you this. Was that do you feel like that was a traumatic experience? No, not at all. Okay, so I can ask you questions. Right. Alright. Um did you feel like it was wrong at the time?
SPEAKER_06:At the time, absolutely not. Thinking back, especially now that I have a child, it's like, hell yeah, that shit was wrong, but I wasn't thinking that at the time. I was just trying to be ground, and I hate to say like, oh, I was being fast, but I was. So how did you I'm sorry, go ahead. No, go ahead.
SPEAKER_04:How did you meet him? Like in a um chat room, okay, you know, being grounded.
SPEAKER_13:Remember the little chat room.
SPEAKER_15:I was just talking about the chat room the other day. Um, because meet you. You are you are connecting with Juicy Five that wants to connect with you. Push five if you would like to connect with Juicy Five.
SPEAKER_14:Hey, what's up? Hey, what's up? You sound real good on the messages. I just wanted to just sit back and just try to see if I could go ahead and uh get you to push that three so we can connect one on one.
SPEAKER_06:My minus 510.
SPEAKER_08:Okay, I don't remember that at all. Really?
SPEAKER_14:Nah, it was it was like the phone chat line. You would call a chat line, and then you could either get on the open room or you could do like one-on-one, and then it would be like you would you would keep pushing. It was like profile swiping.
SPEAKER_15:It was like it was profile swiping before profile swiping. Yeah.
SPEAKER_07:Because it was like, fuck you, eating me. And then you like Esau.
SPEAKER_06:I met him on the chat room. Um as strict as my grandparents were. I figured out a way to do what I wanted to do. Yeah. So, and I always like older men. Like my boyfriend now, he's 57. So you're how old? I'm 43. So even though that's you know just like.
SPEAKER_04:Yeah, I know.
SPEAKER_06:You're like, I always like older men. So I don't know. But it's like, if that was my daughter, I'd be ready to take kill that nigga. But see, that's the core.
SPEAKER_14:But I was just about to say that. That's crazy. Because I think that to me personally, I think that kinda it should not be because of how the order of things are. So a lot of people ask me with me having a 15-year-old daughter, they were like, you know, if your daughter was 16, 17, and she was dating an older guy, I was like, it's a little bit different if she was dating like some immature nigga that was this, that, and the third. But if if she was date, if she got to be like, let's say, like, let's say she's 18 and she's dating a 30-year-old guy that has his shit together, and I was able to vest myself to say, I approve this nigga. But he's got all the bullshit out the way because I know that if she dates somebody her age, this nigga is super immature. Yeah, he's still learning. I know that this man right here has a good job, his credit's good, and I'm vesting. Like, she might not be mature enough to realize if this nigga's a piece of shit or not, but that's where the dad comes in, or the big brother comes in, or the uncle comes in. Like, somebody gotta vet this nigga.
SPEAKER_04:Yeah. Right. She might not even say nothing.
SPEAKER_12:At that point, is there like an age limit? Or like, is there like an age limit that you would say, like, no matter, I don't care how smart this fucking guy is. I don't know.
SPEAKER_04:Well, for me, that was a child, 15. He shouldn't have been the same. At that age, at that was why was he even on the chat line? You know, that's probably an adult.
SPEAKER_14:Not why was he on the chat line?
SPEAKER_06:Why was I? I get it. But I get it. Like, it was for kids.
SPEAKER_14:That shit was not for kids.
SPEAKER_06:It was for young, it was for young adults.
SPEAKER_15:Young adult. It was not for 15. That wasn't. I think it was probably had a kid. Come on, come on. Come on. When the thing came on. Hi, sexy single.
SPEAKER_08:Oh man, I miss it.
SPEAKER_15:Hello. Hello, sexy singles. That is how it literally got on. It didn't say hi, teens and tweens. It said, hi, sexy singles.
SPEAKER_13:No, it's just for the hottest and twins.
SPEAKER_15:For the hottest live individuals.
SPEAKER_14:Like. But it's already. It said tweens for real? No, no, no, no, no. I was saying.
SPEAKER_15:I was saying if it did say that, then it would make sense, but it did not say that. It said, hi, sexy singles. Here, here.
SPEAKER_06:But you asked me if I was traumatized, James. That's an interesting. It's like at the time I was, but it's like now. It's like, that was fucked. That was like these motherfuckers knew better. So it's like it is, it's sort of like such a catch 22.
SPEAKER_14:It's like it's a catch-22. Yeah. But it's a catch 22. But see, a lot of times, I and sorry. I think I I really believe that there is there is an order to things, and we let society take order away from family business, right? Like Messiah, my daughter, right? She has B plus brothers. And so there's not a raggedy nigga. That would be because I I put B into the boys. And so Messiah has wolves over her. So that's gonna scare away the predators. And if they come around, they're not gonna last long because you don't have pussy niggas that's gonna be like, well, shit, that's who she dating. Nah, nigga, I'll beat this nigga ass every time.
SPEAKER_06:Her mentality is gonna be different too. She's been around a certain caliber of men all her life, so she's gonna think and choose differently. I wasn't around that.
SPEAKER_14:That's why I say the that's why I say the order's fucked up.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:The family structure's fucked up. And nobody and everybody's so worried about the chicken and the egg, right? Everybody's so worried about who started the shit, who's who's continuing the shit, instead of trying to figure out how do we fix this shit. Because at the end of the day, yeah, every girl needs her daddy.
SPEAKER_03:Oh yeah.
SPEAKER_14:Every girl needs her daddy, just like every nigga needs his mama.
SPEAKER_09:Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:You need to know that soft shit. No nigga is supposed to be super hard. No woman is supposed to be super soft. No woman's supposed to not know certain things. Like they supposed to, like me and my daughter. Sorry, baby, you're gonna hate me for this. Me and my daughter even are comfortable having casual conversations about sex.
SPEAKER_09:Okay.
SPEAKER_14:Because in in something, don't hate me. Something that something something even personal that we had talked about is like, you know, like I told her, I would rather you, you know, if I find something in your room that I ain't supposed to, right? I would rather you explore home, feel comfortable home, than be out here in these fucking streets and end up with some weird nigga or some disease or anything. So it starts with the home for me to be giving you a safe space. And as long as your safe space is at home, you don't have to find that safe space anywhere else. So that's why when when when I had the opportunity to get to raise my daughter, I was like, yo, give it to me. Because now she has a blanket over her to wear. She can be whoever the fuck. And my daughter is, you're weird.
SPEAKER_09:Yes.
SPEAKER_14:I love my anime. I love my anime daughter. She loves the draw. She went through anime, she loves the heart, but yeah, go ahead.
SPEAKER_06:Okay. I went through my baby's phone. I did a surprise little look through. And she was hyperventilating, like, for my privacy, please don't look. I was like, girl, get out of my room. And I locked the door, and then she jiggling the door. I'm like, now you making me mad.
unknown:No, I jiggle it.
SPEAKER_06:I found something. You acting like a girl, stop. So I'm going through the phone. Time's up. Right. No, because I told her to bring me the phone. And I was like, you got 10 seconds to bring me that phone because you ain't finna be erasing shit. I know the game. So we've been there. Right, been there, been there. So I was just looking for like certain things. I was wanting to see making sure she ain't skipping class or whatever. They were saying some little watchy, little bit of stuff. I'm not stupid. I know that I'm gonna find some stuff. So while she was out there flipping out, I opened the door and I said, Brooklyn, what do you want to say to me before I say what I want to say to you? And then she started trying to put on the dramatic. Now, I'm not gonna say it was dramatics, but she was like, I've been dealing with, you know, depression and I said, baby.
SPEAKER_12:Yeah. Welcome to her.
SPEAKER_06:But I said to say that. That's what you say. To get on my good side because I'm not mad at you.
SPEAKER_09:I said I'm not mad at you.
SPEAKER_06:Right. I said, um, I wasn't expecting to just find y'all talking about cupcakes and shit. I I said, I know how old you are. I did the same thing.
SPEAKER_11:Right.
SPEAKER_06:You know what I'm saying? So we had a long talk that day, but it's just like you said, like that communication. Like don't go in there, stupid thing. Oh my gosh, you talking about sex. I just want to make sure you ain't sneaking off nowhere. I want to make sure you ain't skipping class. And I want to make sure you somebody ain't forcing you to do something you don't want to do. You know what I'm saying? And I said, I said, Brooklyn, it's nothing, nothing you can do to make me stop loving. You know what I'm saying? So don't be like that. I'm like, I'm not gonna kill you. I'm gonna be mad at you, but it's it's still me.
SPEAKER_14:Right. But the crazy the crazy thing is that reinsurance is big.
SPEAKER_07:Yeah, it's big.
SPEAKER_14:Cause I didn't have it. Yeah. A lot of times you don't know if if if your pain, you you have something in your mind, you'll you'll think it and you'll run with it. And you be like, my my daughter know, like I tell people, they be like, you do this around your daughter? You talk about that around your daughter. I said, Yeah, my daughter knows me. Like, yeah, if I died today, she ain't gonna guess her daddy. She's gonna know her daddy. And and with that being said, like, that's that's we are on the on the same accord, right? Through through life. And a lot of times she can see something wrong with me before I see it. And a lot of times you need that because even when I tell, I like I was telling her, I said, sometimes I I'm happy because she's gonna know how to deal with a nigga that goes through shit and be busy. Now, I know nigga that's always on the phone talking about what you're doing, what you do. Nah, I need you to know what it feels like to be around a nigga that's can that's working, that goes through stress, that goes through heartache, that goes through this. So you be like, yeah, my dad, my dad, well, she's my dad, I ain't moving now. My dad needs me. I don't need you, girl.
SPEAKER_09:But she thinks that's the thing.
SPEAKER_14:But she said, but yeah, because because I let her move at a court with me.
SPEAKER_09:Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:I don't, I don't hide nothing from her, I don't put nothing, because you gotta know what this shit is because you're gonna be an adult before I before I I wake up. You know, you're gonna be an adult and you gotta have to know how to do like everyday things. Even when I remember at one point in time, she was thinking, you know, her friends and all them, medication, medication, medication. I was like, girl, what do you do when you have to deal with the world and you can't afford medication? So right now, you have the capability of figuring life out and not have the stress of having to keep yourself up because daddy's holding you up. All you gotta do is figure out how life is. And most people gotta hold their life up while figuring out life, and that shit hard as fuck, because that's what I had to do, and I had to end up learning that shit in the jail cell. And by the time I came home, I was like, damn, I'm running behind, and I wanted to catch up with society, so I had to work extra hard to try to catch up with society. And I was like, I'll be damned if that be my child. And that's a lot of times I feel like that's what we need to do as a society. They be like, Well, the world fucked up. We gonna blame it on this and we're gonna blame it on that. Nah, look in the mirror. Like back to Mike. That shit, that shit starting a household. If your household fucked up, you can't say it's because uh uh uh we can't get government cheese. Don't don't blame it on we ain't got food stamps or we ain't got this or we ain't got that. Like, look at the simple shit that you do. You study with your kids? Do you ask your kids how was your day at the end, or do you just get into did you do your goddamn chores? Yeah, yeah, do you think that's the way that you're you know I mean like do like kids are real people too, and I'm running my mouth. I'm sorry.
SPEAKER_06:No, but it's so funny you said that because it's like you know, I was telling y'all how she was going through her moodiness and everything, and she got right back to it after this. But anyway, we went to the park together. Well, was it Saturday? And we was just sitting there and she was just talking to me and you know, opening up to me and stuff like that. And I said, damn, I figured it out, and I love this about her. You gonna earn my love, Heifer. You know what I'm saying? Like, you for real, like you, I don't care how many clothes you buy me, I don't care about what you cook for me, do for that's what you're supposed to do by law. She's telling me, no, I want to spend time with you. I want you. I want you to sacrifice your time with me. Now, the next day she was right back to her moody self, but it still meant a lot to me. Like, that's what she's telling me. She's telling me how to love. You know, her love. That's her love language. That's her love language. And I love that because she's gonna do the same thing with a man in her life. Like, no, you finna earn my love and affection. You know, so that it was it was cool. Yeah. Because I was different. I'm like, just buy me something and I'll try to say that's my you know thing. Yeah, but you gotta love it. She's a Leo, right? Yeah, she's a Leo, yes. She ain't having that anytime.
SPEAKER_16:Right.
SPEAKER_14:My downfall when I was growing up is I used to feel unloved that anybody that actually showed me any type of affection, I cling to them like instantly. And they might have been the worst fit for me. And they like they're like, niggas, like don't you see like she's doing this, this?
SPEAKER_12:Can I say can I say can anyone relate? I'll just say two words. Uh when I was younger, this was blind love.
SPEAKER_13:Oh, facts.
SPEAKER_12:Yeah.
SPEAKER_13:Love is blind. No, man.
SPEAKER_06:Oh, I really want to say child. What you think is love? It's truly. Wait a minute, let's do it. What was your childhood like? Did you have any like traumatizing? He was a bully. No, no, no.
SPEAKER_12:He was a bully. He was a bully. That was so that was so traumatizing. I was like, dude, I don't even know how to be this alpha. Like, really? I cannot. Tony is my off.
SPEAKER_07:No.
SPEAKER_08:How were you? How were you? How was your childhood then? Yeah.
SPEAKER_12:Great. Had the best childhood. Yep. My childhood was so great that nothing can top it. And everything is just, I'm just I'm such a miserab.
SPEAKER_06:You grew up here? In Atlanta?
unknown:Or?
SPEAKER_12:Oh, I grew up in the burbs.
SPEAKER_09:Oh, okay.
SPEAKER_12:Child just out! Exactly whatever, whatever. Uh I mean it was a it was a good childhood. I mean, you know.
SPEAKER_08:Both parents.
SPEAKER_12:Yep.
SPEAKER_08:Well, I mean, that was the same way, both parents.
SPEAKER_12:Yes, holiday. Yeah, yeah, all the great things. Family trips and now I mean there's nothing wrong with that. We take a we take like a weekly trip every year to the beach. Or no, no, no, I'm saying a year. A yearly trip. Like a week long seminar, somewhere, somewhere.
SPEAKER_11:Sunday, seminar, semi.
SPEAKER_07:How would you pretend it's a no?
SPEAKER_06:I'm in Milan, I'm sorry.
SPEAKER_12:You want some company? What's wrong with you pussies? Like, what are you whining about? I'm taking weekly trips.
SPEAKER_06:But no, you don't have to be kids.
SPEAKER_12:So once a year we would take a trip for about it, like oh uh just a week. And uh I went to Disney like twice. The Indiana Disney Bro, get it. You got Chat GPT. Get an all count. The all counts are gonna be nuts if you do it. What a little pillow.
SPEAKER_07:Don't do that in a baby shower. You're just gonna be a little bit more.
SPEAKER_12:These are these are these are just the shitty week.
SPEAKER_06:So James, you don't need children, right?
SPEAKER_12:These are just domesticated homeless cats.
SPEAKER_06:Ladies and gentlemen for the record. James, do you need children?
SPEAKER_12:I have no children. No. Did you hear what I just said? No.
unknown:What did you say?
SPEAKER_12:I said, you guys are just domesticated homeless cats.
SPEAKER_05:Cause you go, oh, oh. He's answering everything about the children questions.
SPEAKER_12:I just said I have no children. No, I have no children. I have no children.
SPEAKER_06:I have no children. That he knows of. That he acknowledges.
unknown:No.
SPEAKER_06:No? Okay. You don't. Oh wow. I mean, I'm I I can write down with him. I still don't know if I want children. But I still think it is it takes a good person to actually say they don't want kids.
SPEAKER_11:Not right now. Don't have kids.
SPEAKER_06:Right, right. And don't have them and mistreat them.
SPEAKER_14:Do you?
SPEAKER_09:For real.
SPEAKER_14:So let me ask y'all real quick since since it's a it's a good ratio of of of uh men and women. How do y'all feel about today modern day 50-50?
SPEAKER_06:Oh wow. Well, you got shit. Everything is so fucking expensive now. Mm-hmm. Unless you really find a man that now, okay, let me say this.
SPEAKER_14:I'm listening.
SPEAKER_06:All these women talking about he gonna make a hundred K bitch. Where are you finding him at? Please let me know. You know what I'm saying? It's the difference between a man that makes a lot of money and he still just wants to go 50-50 with you because that's just how he is. Like he has the means to provide and he doesn't. It's a difference between he's making, I don't know, fifty-sixty thousand a year and he can't really provide everything. You know what I'm saying? So it might not even be fifty-fifty. It could be, you know what I'm saying, 64, you know what I'm saying? However y'all can work it out. But don't make that man feel like he ain't shit. You know what I'm saying? Just because he's not making six figures and he can take or can't take care of you. That's not fair. You know what I'm saying? But at the same time, do I say go out there and get a bum? No, I'm not saying that. You know, but be realistic.
SPEAKER_04:Be realistic. I feel like if both people work, then both people should contribute.
SPEAKER_07:Yeah.
SPEAKER_04:But like if it's very off either way, like, you know, then you gotta kind of address that because just because the one person, like, what if the woman is the one that makes more? You know, does that matter? Or how do you figure it out? So I feel like if one person makes a lot more, the bill should kind of be split a little differently. Like maybe it shouldn't be 50-50 because that person's 50 is your like it's not your 50, you know, your y'all's 50 is different. Yeah, exactly.
SPEAKER_06:But you know what? I think it's so weird that this conversation always keeps happening. Yeah, right. Whatever.
SPEAKER_00:But in particular in the black community, though.
SPEAKER_06:And let me tell you, I just see other races, it don't even fucking matter how much money the man makes. And like, say if the man like is like white or you know, Mexican or whatever, and he can make like I'm so done. He could make like he could make like okay, maybe fifty, sixty thousand, right? And he get him a wife or whatever, she'll just be like, okay, we all make 50, 60,000. If I want a different life or if I want more, I'll work too. You know what I'm saying? Whereas it's almost like the climate with black folks, it's like he made 50, 60,000. Oh, that nigga damn enough, you know what I'm saying? That broken, he can't provide for you. You'll go with it. But what about just getting the family structured together first? Why does it always have to be about the money, the money, the money, the money?
SPEAKER_14:Because sexy red talk about the money, Beyonce talks about the money, Lotto talks about the money, Cardi B talks about the money, Nicki Minaj talks about the money. Our community talks about it. Yeah, and it we I that's something I always keep saying about our uh our community is that our community does not idolize the right folks. We idolize, you know, the people that that could put that can be put into our lives to control us. And and the crazy thing is, in the good, like, and I'm not religious, right? But I I take a lot of things from religious things and put it into real life perspective. And the funny thing is, is in biblical terms, the devil was reached through music, so entertainment, right? And he damned him to hell, but they never said that he took his powers away. Right? And so it's crazy that with certain beats, certain lyrics, like if I'm mad and I want to go hit a lick, I'm gonna listen to somebody like Youngboy, or I'm gonna listen to somebody like, like, like, like, I don't know, like, I don't broke.
SPEAKER_12:Chicago drill music, you know. It's wild because like all throughout work, it's all it's just like war drums, and like and that's and that's what they're always talking about in the music, and I'm like, man, that's not creating that atmosphere through that music.
SPEAKER_03:You had just broken down the other day.
SPEAKER_14:Um like I was telling I was having a conversation with uh Seven the other day. Seven. Like I know I told you once everything's in, we good. Right. But um But when I was talking to Seven the other day, I was like, I was telling her, I was like, if you ever notice, you have to look at certain things that happen in this world, and you have to take your you have to take your shades off and look at it through a different lens, right? And so when Gangsta Rap came, because before Gangsta Rap, it was it was uh, you know, pro-black. Conscious and pro-black, right? Right after that, how in the hell does it flip right after, right? But during that flip, did you know that there were a whole bunch of contracts being made for private prisons? And so with that contract for private prisons, it's like, hey, in this contract, it says that you have to keep these prisons full. How are you going to do it? That's what it's called. The school to prison pipeline. And then that is exactly what it's called. And that's what your favorite people are the ones who own most of the uh most of the pipeline. Oh, okay.
SPEAKER_04:Like a lot of these companies, a lot of these big companies, they they are like, whatever.
SPEAKER_14:Like, like, like it's very crazy. And and and and he's he's not gonna say it because he be like, uh, but I think that it's real crazy, and I might get backlash for this, right? But I don't care. I really don't. This is the Unbreakable Black Man Podcast. Kiss my ass. But one race or one ethnicity controls majority of our entertainment pipelines. And everything that gets pushed through that certain pipeline is negativity. Yeah, you don't see no white, like, you don't really see no white girl pushing Cardi B's agenda. You don't really see no white girls pushing Nicki Minaz's agenda. You even back in the day, not really, they they will try to, but that's when you get Madonna.
SPEAKER_06:Or what's her name?
SPEAKER_14:You get your Iggy Azalea. You get your Iggy Azalea. There you go. That's as far as you're gonna go. Who? Iggy Iggy Azalea.
SPEAKER_06:Who's that other girl?
SPEAKER_14:And then the Katie Perry Burby. But but but she got f but she got but she got famous off of Oh, bad baby baby, whatever. But she got, but she got, but she is already, she got, she came in the game as trash. Yeah, she's gonna be a child. She did not come outside. She did not come, she did not come in the game as American sweetheart.
SPEAKER_12:She might as well she might as well have been honey boo-boo.
SPEAKER_14:Right. Like she did not, she did not come in the game as well. No one took her serious. She did not come in the game as what what what's the one that every what they would talk about? She she's dating some football player, Taylor Swift. She's not those people. So of course she came in in the urban light. If you want, like what they say, if you want to be white and you want to go over there, you're over there. And we're not gonna give you the same treatment, we're gonna treat you like the niggas. We're not gonna treat you like Katy Perry. We're not gonna treat you like Taylor Swift, we're gonna treat you like Hardy B. Nick Minaj and all the motherfuckers you want to be. But if you want to be the white person that we want you to be, we will lift you all the way up because we want the white society to look at entertainment in this way, just like Asian is pop. Even when they try to be gangster, they're still pop.
SPEAKER_12:Yeah, they're either pop or they're like or or they're fast and furious Asians. Right.
SPEAKER_14:But the but the the out the outlook of entertainment for us is the crackhead, the scammer, the the the baby mama, the baby daddy, the uh, like even that's why I say even with Tyler Perry, like I don't I don't respect too much of what Tyler Perry do because he paints the same picture. Yeah, my nigga, good for you. You got rich off of exploiting us. Did you hear about what he did with Boondocks? No.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, he shut them down because they made that episode basically spoofing him to the team. He said he would make H shit down and they did. That's how much power.
SPEAKER_08:But it's gonna show you how much power he had. Atlanta too. Didn't they do an episode of Atlanta when he was Mr. Chocolate?
SPEAKER_06:They definitely forgot what his name was on the balloon dots, but it wasn't Collin Harry. But it was like ridiculously like similar like Tyrone Peterson Skylarry.
SPEAKER_16:Skylarry along.
SPEAKER_12:He shut it down, you know.
SPEAKER_06:They stopped it, and then they tried to go back and like still trying to do it. And the producers was like, nigga, you can't. Yeah, he said no. That goes show you how much power he got. But you know, you know why.
SPEAKER_12:But they really, they really, they really, they really pulled his card.
SPEAKER_14:Some if if if if you want the culture, like there's certain, you know, life is waves, right? And you could ride certain waves and get to where you want to be. And certain waves are good waves, certain waves are bad ways. And certain waves will get you to the same place. But it all depends on which one you choose. And to me personally, I feel like, you know, he always says that he was homeless and he was all this before he started his Medea plays, right? And I just the same thing I think about Tupac. Same thing I think about Tupac. I say this shit all the time. He was a plant, motherfucker.
SPEAKER_06:You think so?
SPEAKER_14:I know so. But I'm not gonna say I know so. Because this is the unbreakable black man. I can't say that I know. But hell yeah, I believe that he was a plant.
SPEAKER_09:Tupac?
SPEAKER_14:I do. Allegedly, he was a plant. Allegedly. So you mean oh, once they were done with him, then they can't get us now, because we said it's alleged. So I either believe that he's not in the United States or they really executed him. Oh, you think he's still alive? I could. Because at the end of the day, if I don't when I don't need you no more, you need to get the fuck on.
SPEAKER_12:You know who I think. You know who I think's still alive? Michael Jones. Adolf Hitler.
SPEAKER_09:Bro, what?
SPEAKER_06:I think I think he's a hundred years old.
SPEAKER_16:He's a vampire.
SPEAKER_14:No, he is. Right, right. He would be over a hundred years old.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah. He would be like five. Like that.
SPEAKER_14:That was you could say, you could say you don't think that he was executed.
SPEAKER_06:You don't think he killed it because he supposedly unaloged. Yeah.
SPEAKER_12:I gotta learn all this stuff.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, I know.
SPEAKER_12:He took cyanide pills, yeah, apparently.
SPEAKER_14:That's such a that's probably not a good but but I I for what he did. I I believe I I think that it's very weird, right? That you know, you know, just imagine me being the CIA. And I see this guy that's in the performing art school, and I already have ties to his mama.
SPEAKER_06:Oh, yeah, because she was part of the whole Black Panther and she wasada was his godmother. Uh-huh. Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:And and they already had connections with it.
SPEAKER_06:And it's like that's too much shit though. I want to take a nap. We're talking about we're talking about. No, I'm talking about as far as I couldn't go through that if I was, you know, him.
SPEAKER_14:Like I just, you know, it's like but have you did you see, did you see his performing arts interview? No. But I know where he was like, Yeah, my name is Tupac.
SPEAKER_00:Oh.
SPEAKER_14:And and it's crazy that um that the world is the way that it is, but I believe that one day that's that's how that's how he was.
SPEAKER_16:Oh, you think you think I'm lying? He was very, like, very.
SPEAKER_12:He was a bit sassy. He was a little bit sassy. A bit sassy, a bitch.
SPEAKER_06:But then he said that, oh, he turned down Quincy Jones, but did he wait what? Yeah, because I'm not gonna get it.
SPEAKER_14:Because because I'll be so I'll be on a Friday night. I know like me, yeah. God damn it.
SPEAKER_09:Let's talk about uh I'm like oh it was crazy.
SPEAKER_01:Who's your celebrity?
SPEAKER_12:Those you can have.
SPEAKER_04:For real? She's like, I like her.
SPEAKER_08:He was a kid, most kids act like Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:Hold up, no, there's a difference between being flamboyantly and being too popular. No, no, this is the actual interview film from Spain never really, was he ever really gangster though? Wasn't beefy that was like a I think it was like so so so so what I'm saying is you you pushed even even with the beef that you pushed with with Biggie, Biggie didn't even that blind Biggie was blindsided by his beef.
SPEAKER_05:Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:He didn't know nothing about it, he didn't have nothing to do with it, and he's like, yo, I thought that we were best friends. Like, what the fuck happened?
SPEAKER_08:Yeah. Right.
SPEAKER_14:So so so that was pussy. But now just make it a lot of things. I believe that's a good thing. He's a he's a he's he's a part of it.
SPEAKER_06:He was so cute. He was so gorgeous. Him and D'Angelo.
SPEAKER_12:Just turn it all the way up to my.
SPEAKER_14:Yeah, it's playing.
SPEAKER_06:I think he was just in a at an artsy school.
SPEAKER_14:But what I'm but what I'm saying. Yeah, I'll say I'll s I'll send you to the school.
SPEAKER_06:I just feel like he was a good one.
SPEAKER_14:I'll send y'all the full arts. No, I will send I will send y'all the full interview. I will send the full interview. But what I'm but but let me.
SPEAKER_07:Yeah, he did try to kid.
SPEAKER_14:But but but but he alright, so so you go from that to being the most gangster. The most gangsterous gangsterous revolutionary to getting the juice. Right the juice. Right. But but at the Migos grew up in what you're doing. But at the same time, you're pushing agendas. You're pushing agendas. We have private prisons and we need niggas to act gangster. We need niggas to get locked up. We need niggas to sell our dope. We're putting dope out here. Here's the dope, here's the gangster music, here's the gangster movies. Yeah, here's Minister Society, here's Boys in the Hood, here's roots from back in the day. We're gonna put all this shit into your mind. We're gonna give you all this shit so you can idolize this shit. Go out here and try to do this shit, and we're gonna give you the shit. We're gonna keep in the CIA. Don't forget the CIA is invested into the in into Hollywood. There's the CIA budget for in Hollywood. They literally have an investment in private prisons, Hollywood, and music. And we be like, Well, we don't see this shit. Like, come on, man. But we get mad at niggas like Charleston White and and other niggas that that just I just don't like what he be saying, how he talking about how he says it. Say it.
SPEAKER_06:No, what he says about I'm so let me say this.
SPEAKER_12:I love Charleston White.
SPEAKER_06:What?
SPEAKER_12:He's hilarious.
SPEAKER_06:Fuck that. He says he's a big thing. But why shouldn't you be funny without always talking bad about black women? That's why I don't understand.
SPEAKER_14:All these people that are so white people. He talks shit about everybody. Yeah, yeah. But because it's hilarious. Trigger, trigger. That's all it is. It's a trigger. But sometimes you can't get mad at triggers.
SPEAKER_06:Why do so many people have to why I just think, and this is my opinion.
SPEAKER_14:So y'all didn't like Kevin Samuels, too.
SPEAKER_06:Bow, bow, bow, bow. I just don't understand that. Why would out of other people? She said I'm not listening. We should not be on there talking about our own women like that. You don't see other races of men to be able to do that.
SPEAKER_14:Y'all talk dirty doo-doo about black men. I don't we don't get up. Women talk dirty doo-doo about black men on their podcast. On their podcast. We tell the truth.
SPEAKER_06:But we're talking about okay. So okay, I've been talking dirty. Your truth. When you're talking about your experiences and dating if all you dated was black men, you're talking about that. But it's another difference between all black men are lazy. All black men don't take care of that. No, he called black women fat. He said that black women were low value, black women over a certain age, who was you don't do that. Why didn't you have to put the black women as a black man? You could have, he could have kept it as women. Why did you have to throw the black in there and you're a black person that's ignorant as fuck? And he was trying to be black.
SPEAKER_14:But if we're talking about one, all right, so if he would just took the black, if he would, if if he would have took the black off, that would have made you accept that shit.
SPEAKER_06:That would have made me less offended as a black woman. Hell yeah! Because if you just talking about dating in general, keep it at that. But when you make your core audience from bashing black, like that makes sense. And you're making money off and you're also black. You came from a black woman. Like crazy. Yeah, not only are you bashing us, he also got on there putting other races of women on a pedestal. He would get on there and say, Oh, you don't see Becky out there gaining weight and all that, but it is fat Becky's every fucking way. And he was putting them on a pedestal. But when he talked down about us, that's booze.
SPEAKER_14:But when he when he gave a but when he gave a scale, he gave a scale of black women. He never gave a scale of outside a black race.
SPEAKER_05:What do you mean?
SPEAKER_14:Like when, you know, like if he would compare a woman to the scale, like one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, he would say Kelly Rowland was a 10. Yeah, he did. He would say Rihanna was a nine.
SPEAKER_06:But he didn't do this with these white women. He said that you were, and I didn't mean to control, but he did also say this that European features were considered beautiful by some scientific bullshit study that he said that he looked at that Euro Eurocentric was considered more beautiful than African features. He said that too. What kind of shit is that?
SPEAKER_14:So I'm saying you don't get on there and you say he's a self-hater. So it's not, it's not really I'll cheers to that. I think, I think, I think, and I'm not trying to offend I'm I'm I'm playing devil's advocate, right? Because I I love my black women. So don't don't.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, I don't I don't think that you I would leave.
SPEAKER_14:But but I just I just look I just look at it like you know like if if if if a if a if a woman like for me I have a friend uh of mine and one day she came to me and she dogged me the fuck out. Cause she was like, you you you always say you wanna woman. She's from Africa, so I'm I'm I'm I'm giving this I'm giving this I'm giving this shit like you wanna woman, but you don't you don't even dress like you care. You don't dress up, you don't have no jewelry, you don't have nothing, you don't smell good. And and like she was handing me, she was handing me the business. And I was like, I could be I could I could be I could be I could be sensitive, I could be sensitive about it and be like her delivery was fucked up, but I wanted to hear the message. Fuck the delivery, let me hear the message.
SPEAKER_06:But that's one woman talking to you, not a man on a national platform generalizing you and all other women. That makes it's basically like making you feel like you're at the bottom of the Tony Pole, and this is what you have to accept. You know what I mean? And that's you don't do that.
SPEAKER_14:It's not really, it's and and like I said, I'm playing devil's advocates. Don't don't don't get too hard into what I say, right? Do it cut his mic off. But I think that hard truths are the right truths.
SPEAKER_06:Everything he was saying was true. That was his opinion. That was his opinion that he tried to push off as truth.
SPEAKER_12:But hey, listen, I I know we've only been talking for like what an hour or two. You don't have to settle for whatever you think you have to settle for. Like you can always work towards whatever you want. Hey, you got it. Like, you're cool people. You can do it.
SPEAKER_06:Oh, here we go. But what I'm just saying, I just wish and I feel where he's coming from. Sade.
SPEAKER_09:Did you say you had on a side shit?
SPEAKER_12:Sade? No, I did not do that. You said that. I didn't say that.
SPEAKER_06:But no, I'm just like, why do we? It's like the more that that's put out there, and especially for like the younger generation and stuff, they don't need to hear that. You know what I mean? I don't want them to be programmed to think white women ain't visible, you know, because Brooklyn's looking at my daughter. She's looking at that kind of stuff, you know. She knows better. But you know, what about for the girls who don't know better? What about for the girls who I gotta, you know, they make fun of little Kim or whatever. But do you know what she said in the interview? She said that she started getting the surgery because all the men that cheated on her cheated on her with like the Pamela Anderson looking right. You know what I'm saying? So she Yeah, she said that. So she was like, oh, I gotta look like this to be desired. And now look, she looks and I I love Lil' Kim, but she looks like a cat. Because she was trying to manipulate herself to fit what they said was good looking.
SPEAKER_08:I always thought she was so pretty.
SPEAKER_06:I always thought she was so pretty when she first came out.
SPEAKER_12:But oh, wait, wait, wait. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. You said you said Lil' Kim? Yeah, but she looks like the gremlin from Leprechaun.
SPEAKER_09:She didn't always look like that.
SPEAKER_12:Sorry, I but yeah, I'm not sure. I thought she was fine too at one point.
SPEAKER_14:Yeah, she was But listen, I I think that's not the leaks. This is this is this is at the point to where I kind of do feel like the chicken and the egg type thing. Cause I really believe that when you don't get that type of love from the beginning and you chase it for so long, you start to question your own ability and your own looks and your own things. And once you start to question it, it don't matter about what the outside is, you start to internalize that shit, and you start to make that shit the crust of your fucking existence. And that's when you start to do these things. It takes a strong, like I'll say this, it takes a very strong person to live in this cruel ass fucking world. Yeah. Even before but but even you know, we say we say that shit about social media now, but before social media, it was school. Before school, it was scrolling. Before scrolling, it was the township saying that you was a fucking witch. You know what I'm saying? Like it's it's always it's always gonna be something. And it takes that person that's just, you know, the per like I, you know, what made me, and I'ma say this on on podcast, what made me change how I was was I started to idolize how my cousin was. My cousin was an asshole, and he got off on shit because he was honest and he was an asshole about it, and he just said I didn't want to do shit, or I don't want to do this, or I'm this, or I don't like this, or I that, and it's just like shit, it's respected. Whatever it is, it is what it is. And I'm like, look, at this point in time, a lot of these folks need to be that way with anything, with life, period, even with with with being a parent, with dealing with relationships, with dealing with a friendship, anything. And we get lost in that shit a lot of times because we're trying to be, I don't know, I don't know how we can say what we're trying to be like.
SPEAKER_06:I wanted to get back to the so like kind of like Segway and Pat to I want to get everybody a thing, oh shoot, I don't know, I did so good to my editing. I'm so sorry to what Salmon was saying. I want to go down the line where everybody thinks about just 50-50 relationships, you know, in general. And like nowadays, like oh my god, yeah.
SPEAKER_15:I forgot about that.
SPEAKER_12:Reverse, reverse.
SPEAKER_06:I really want to get like the final consensus on that from everybody.
SPEAKER_04:I just I want to start down there. And then we come down. Is it how we feel about it because of our current situation or how we would prefer it if we could have both. Okay, cool.
SPEAKER_06:Go ahead, James.
SPEAKER_12:No low contendre. No, I don't want to get into this conversation.
SPEAKER_09:Trigger.
SPEAKER_12:No, no, no, I'm not. No, no, it's not that. I just so do you have a I've had it before. I've had this conversation before. We've talked about it. I just don't want to do it anymore.
SPEAKER_06:Gemini's can never just answer the question.
SPEAKER_12:That's correct. I can never just answer a question.
SPEAKER_04:Well, alright. So currently.
SPEAKER_12:That being said, I agree with 5050. Okay. Yeah, 50-50 is good. Yeah, I think it's great.
SPEAKER_06:He said I think it's great. But do you okay? No.
SPEAKER_14:I want to get deep, but you want to say that the shallow ends.
SPEAKER_06:And I'm gonna say this because I'm gonna I I don't want to take a but this is where the little conundrum comes in. Do you think it's great because for a selfish reason, or do you think it's great just because it's fair for both people? I think it depends on that too. Because it's the intention.
SPEAKER_12:Alright, if I'm being serious, I think that if if you find someone that uh you care about or whatever, and if you want to make it work, you make it work. If it has to be 50-50, if it has to be 730 70 30 sometimes, whatever. You make it work. If it's just about money, uh go fuck yourself. Yeah. Stick it up your ass.
SPEAKER_07:But see, that was I mean, you should have that was honest.
SPEAKER_12:No, no, no.
SPEAKER_07:Yeah, there's nothing wrong with that.
SPEAKER_12:That's where I'm at. That's my that's where I'm at.
SPEAKER_09:Okay.
SPEAKER_12:That's just where I'm at right now.
SPEAKER_04:So, um day. That's what you Beyonce, please.
SPEAKER_14:Man, I forgot about that song, but telling things.
SPEAKER_02:That's a hot song. That was boomerang. Boomerang soundtrack. Seven holes.
SPEAKER_14:Hey.
SPEAKER_05:Her sisters were in the song.
SPEAKER_14:I can't take it, don't take it, can't take it no more. I had about enough for you. I'd rather be on my yes. I'd rather be on. You know what, you know what's funny? I forgot who who had brought it up to Tony Braxton. She was like, oh my god, I want to play all your songs at my wedding. She was like, hold up, no, why? She was like, all my songs are heartbreak songs. She was like, you don't want that at your wedding. She was like, oh, but I just love your music. Like, yeah, that does kind of make sense. Why would you want should have brought you to me last night?
SPEAKER_13:Like, she might be right.
SPEAKER_04:Yeah, yeah. But yeah, like, so I I just feel like I don't ever want nobody. Then this is like your cousin. Um, so his cousin was on the podcast. And I don't want nobody to ever have like power to put me out nowhere. So yeah, we're gonna both pay. I'm sorry, because some of this is mine and whatever of it is yours, like we'll figure that out. But of course, okay, so that's how I currently feel as a working woman that I don't want to be forever. So if it was like my perfect, like what I want, and you know, when I see the picture, I don't want to work. I'm over it, support me, but like I can't. I can't be nothing but me, so it's gotta be the me that you met and that you see. So then he gotta like, it's we, you know.
SPEAKER_12:So what what is the what is the whole push to be like some big powerful woman? It's like the most powerful thing you can be is a mother.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, I never went. You mean as far as like the working and all that, that was something I never endorsed. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I want to make it very clear. And I and that it's funny he said it, because we were all used women, excuse me, Beyonce fucked up a lot of shit for us. I never wanted to be no independent woman for the record.
SPEAKER_14:Well, actually, I wanted to actually actually blame that shit on TLC. Yeah. Because they wrote the songs for Destiny's Child, a lot of those songs.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, I never advocated for that. I would like the record to show I always wanted to be a stay-at-home wife and just have kids.
SPEAKER_14:Shouldn't girls grow up in city girls, and city girls for the new new age shit.
SPEAKER_06:That's that's prostitution right now.
SPEAKER_14:Like, god damn. For real.
SPEAKER_04:But shouldn't girls grow up with like interests and talents and dreams. You can have that goal.
SPEAKER_15:So so And then beg later on to say, I don't want to do none of this shit.
SPEAKER_07:Wait a minute, that's not begging.
SPEAKER_08:But that also goes back to when we were younger. Look at the always a woman waiting to be saved by the plant. Yes, getting a big damsel in distress. Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_14:That's why, that's why Snow White and that's why Snow White flopped.
unknown:You sound silly.
SPEAKER_14:Because they tried that, because they tried to veer from that shit.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, they pushed the narrative wrong. It should have been the prize that the prince was like picking out that the princess picked him, or he actually acquired the princess, where we were taught, like, no, he's gotta choose you. You know what I'm saying? So you gotta work for make sure he chooses you, make sure you stay look a certain way, make sure you do this, make sure so he choose so we found our worth in being chosen by a man.
SPEAKER_14:But that's what it is. And then you end up with the biggest thing. That's what it is back in the day. So, so so so so like if if we could erase all this ratchetness, right? I would value you for for you who you are. Are you a few? But but but but but but but but but but you are a flower in the field that has never been touched. And you will be my flower. Or whatever you want me to call if I want you a can of tuna can of tuna? Bro.
SPEAKER_07:I ain't no tuna now.
SPEAKER_15:She's a weed.
SPEAKER_07:Like shit.
SPEAKER_15:You try to give her a good name and she's like what the what the what the fuck you mean I'm pure? What the fuck? What the fuck you mean I'm pure? Bitch. I got all over me, nigga.
SPEAKER_06:No, no, no. Well, I'm just sitting, here we go with the double standard. Why is women we gotta be sitting up there like, really, okay, you 40 years old and you just 100% pure? No, but me can go out there and screw everything extra for kids.
SPEAKER_09:Can I respect? Can I get to breath?
SPEAKER_15:Can I can I can I respond though? Catch your breath. Catch your breath. In real life. It ain't got no alcohol lemon. It ain't got no alcohol lemon. Talking about some sympia lemonade for lemon. It's her throat parts. Yeah, we gotta always do that.
SPEAKER_14:You need to give her a little sugar. But nah, for real though, but for real. I I I really I really do believe that I think the best, I think the best situation was when both parties tried to remain pure. So when I connected with you and you connected with me, we could both explore together and find out what best works for us before all of us sit here like if if male or female, if I had a thousand experiences, I'm gonna try to make that one person have those a thousand experiences in one. And that's unfair. You don't get what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_06:I get what you're saying, but I guess not for me, and I haven't had a thousand. Let me put that on the record. I have not had a thousand experiences, but with each experience was different for you know the connection with that person. You know what I mean? Like now, like when I'm with my boyfriend, you know, special for us.
SPEAKER_14:Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_06:So okay, he just thinks about Bob But do you get understanding it's like a minus his interests?
SPEAKER_12:Right everything's great about him, minus the things that he likes to do without me.
SPEAKER_06:You know, minus his interests and passions, you know. But now I am working.
SPEAKER_12:Minus the things that keep him alive.
SPEAKER_06:So speaking of this, so do y'all really bel shut up. Do y'all really believe in soul ties? Like that whole, like, if you slept with one person and you and you sleep with somebody else, then you know all the spirits that that person slept with, you bringing it to the other person. Y'all believe in all the things.
SPEAKER_12:I think that there's a I think that's a surgery exchange. Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_14:Science scientifically they say that, you know, when you're having sex with somebody and you're rubbing skin with each other, you're consistently swapping DNA samples with each other. And especially for the female that holds that shit. And it starts to be to where, you know, each partner, each partner that, each partner that you have, you get you get to store that person's shit. And that's why they, you know, they they made a joke about it. And they was like, you know, sometimes when you have, you know, a baby with somebody, and you're like, damn, he looked like such and such. But even when you have a blood test, it is this nigga's baby, but it looks like this nigga. And a lot of times it's because of that.
SPEAKER_04:And I think we absorb the energy of everybody we've come across. So I do believe in the soul ties thing, but I think like the direct soul ties with the person that you're sleeping with. But of course, they are a sum of all the energy they've ever, you know, so you kind of are, but you know, it's like it's like through that person. But um, you know, so that's why like, you know, I think with sex, like it's it's it gets deep. And some people like to think it's not deep, but it gets deep. It gets deep.
SPEAKER_06:I can only speak like I have never you know, when I was younger, yeah, we all did our thing, but I was always the one who had with feelings. Like I cannot just screw somebody, you know what I'm saying? Especially like on a regular basis, and they just mean nothing to me. Like, I I just can't do that. So, like if somebody were to cheat on me, it would hurt me more. You know what I mean? Cause I'm like, damn, like that's incident. Like, you know what I'm saying? You took off your clothes, you had a chance to say, I don't want to do this. And you did that's how I would look at it. Whereas like a guy was just like, I just I just fucked her.
SPEAKER_14:Right, but right, but I I think that I think in in you know, say, you know, I I I really do believe that when it comes down to a woman being the the carrier of a child, that y'all do have connection with who you're carrying. Because it is not uh, you know, us carrying, but y'all are carrying the seed of a man. Like no matter how, you know, well, we had the baby. No, you carried the baby.
SPEAKER_06:Ooh, wait a minute. No, we we we brought a soul. I brought a soul into this world. I carried a soul.
SPEAKER_14:You nurtured it to terminate. Right, right. No, the government gave you that power. The government gave you that power.
unknown:Way back in the day.
SPEAKER_06:I never would have. I'm just saying I would never meet people. I'm tipsy. Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:But what about it? But but I I think, all right, two, two things. Two things, two things, two things, two things. Create. So ties. I think two I got on a minute. Create create create. Yeah, it's like I think I think I think create and life should not be held to the point to where we can make jokes about just getting rid of life.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, that's why I was like, let me stop. Yeah, so let me.
SPEAKER_14:And then and then part two of that, you you you hold the baby to turn. The placenta is from the man. In the sperm cell, the seed that creates is from the man. Right? And so there are two ties to that shit. It's never just a singular tie to it. But anyway.
SPEAKER_06:Um What are we talking about? 50-50.
SPEAKER_14:Yeah, we were talking about.
SPEAKER_06:We went from 50-50 to placenta. So can we can we talk about it?
SPEAKER_14:I feel like 50-50, it should be 50-50 because I think that everybody has individual dreams and goals. Right? And if that person, like let's say uh seven, worked her ass off to get to where she's at, she should not have the subject to take care of me and put her dreams and goals to the side. Right? And I feel that same way. Like if I deal with somebody, I don't like I love to buy expensive stuff to do podcasting. And I like to do different things. And if I had to sit here and have to take care of somebody 24-7, that would make me depressed. Because I don't get to do the things that make me have fun no more. I'm sitting here worrying about taking care of little baby and and little C note and and Mama D because you know, I'm just saying, but 50-50.
SPEAKER_04:So what if you what if you made like a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot of money?
SPEAKER_14:If I'm at if but then out then that it would be different. But we're two average individuals that we don't make a lot of money.
SPEAKER_06:But it just seemed like back then it wasn't that and we were going through civil rights and getting our asses kicked, and they still were men that wanted to be head of the household and be because we had to.
SPEAKER_14:You couldn't even get a good job, you couldn't even get a decent job back in the day. Women couldn't get decent jobs back in the day. So you had you. So now that we can. Oh shit. Yeah, fuck a nigga. That's literally how y'all are. That is literally how y'all act now.
SPEAKER_04:That is literally act like that.
SPEAKER_07:I don't. Right? I don't either.
SPEAKER_12:Hold on, hold on, hold on. Can you give me your uh a simple version of what you're talking about? Okay, so for an idiot, right? For me.
SPEAKER_14:So, so, so all the way back, let's say even from when they started giving Section A. Right. And and started giving rights to women, and started giving incentives to women, especially women with children. Because women with children are connected to men. And with that being said, that they have every incentive in the world to say, fuck a nigga, fuck a man, fuck the man, fuck the man, fuck the man. To the point to where y'all are so capable, y'all get good jobs. Even though they would say, well, we don't get paid good enough. Y'all make good money compared, like we're talking about everyday niggas in the black community. Black women make decent fucking money. They are either nurses, RNs, LPNs, they either work in in some um in some uh uh uh corporate building, federal building, or anything that can get the uh air flight control, I don't give a fuck what it is, but they got good jobs and they try to say that they don't. A lot of these guys out here are pushing pennies. And if they are pushing pennies and they got a little money, they're paying child support and they're broke again. You know, so it's a lot of things that's holding the that person behind, but there's a lot of things that incentivize fucking like basically saying fuck us. And even the music says fuck us, the TV says fuck us, the movie says fuck us, Tyler Perry says fuck us, everybody says fuck us. Yeah, of course. But that's but that's why he wants women to hate us. Where do we have to run to? Another nigga? You got me fucked up. But I mean, but that's how the society has. But but the every but the everyday woman, that's why I say it's it's a tug and pull because the everyday nigga don't feel like what they say on TV. Okay, now everyday woman don't feel the same way. Most most most men want a good woman, but they try to follow what they see on TV.
SPEAKER_06:Okay, but let me ask you this.
SPEAKER_14:That's what's good. That's what's that's that's stick with it.
SPEAKER_12:That's called programming. Yeah, right. That happens a lot. Yep, conditioning.
SPEAKER_14:That happens a lot.
SPEAKER_04:It's on purpose.
SPEAKER_14:On purpose all communities.
SPEAKER_04:It's on purpose.
SPEAKER_14:If if the man's not in the house, the boy can be rambunctious. And if the boy's rambunctious, he gets in that pipeline. The minute he's in that pipeline, he's my prisoner. And even though that he's a prisoner, do y'all know even with the 13th Amendment, it means that you're free. But when you get locked up, you are back in slavery. You are back in slavery. You are back in slavery. You are back in slavery. So if we put your child in the pipeline because you don't have the nigga to check this nigga, you don't have that motherfucker that he fears. He don't fear mama, but he fears daddy. But mama don't respect him, nobody respects him, so how the fuck he gonna respect him? So he sees every man like nigga, fuck you, nigga. I'm a man. No, nigga, you a little boy. And you ain't never got checked by a real man because your mama saying you the man of the house, nigga, you a fucking boy. And we don't have that no more. This is an unbreakable black man moment.
SPEAKER_07:Let's talk about something more like this. Yeah. Yeah. I wanna use it.
SPEAKER_14:I'm sorry.
SPEAKER_15:I just wanted to say yes.
SPEAKER_07:Billy.
SPEAKER_09:Billy Allen Edit.
SPEAKER_12:I got you. Did you already say remember?
SPEAKER_08:But you go. Let's finish out the the 50-50. Did you did you say you went well? I'll say for me, um, growing up, my parents, they had a joint account. Um, granted, my dad made more than my mom, but they put all their money into that, and then that's how they paid the bill. So I don't know if that's considered 50-50 or 50 or not. But I feel like people should just do what the fuck works for their relationship. Yeah, it's called a partnership.
SPEAKER_10:That's just what it's called, right?
SPEAKER_08:I have no problem with 50-50. Yeah.
unknown:Okay.
SPEAKER_06:I don't know. My thing is it was like, you know, my grandmother, my grandparents raised me. My grandmother's very old school and crazy. But she always used to make me feel like if a guy didn't provide for you, if he didn't do this and you stupid. You know what I'm saying? If he didn't have his own place, it was just like in my brain. So, like, even now, like, we're not doing 50-50. He pays more than what he should if you want to really be fit. You know what I'm saying? Because I'm the one with the car note and the car is saying he still contributes anyway. But I still be feeling like, man, if he's not paying all the rent, am I being dumb? Am I being used? No. That's just what she would instill into me. And then at the same time, she was coming up when eggs were like 50 cents for 2015.
SPEAKER_08:But to piggyback on what you said, Seven, like, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where the man is paying for everything. Because I'm like, at any minute, he could leave me, and then I'm like, oh, so it's like not contribute to something. So I'm okay with it. But see, I'm with I wouldn't have I don't want to be with someone where I have that fear they would. I guess it's just me.
SPEAKER_14:But if you was a woman working. But if you but if you was if you if you was a woman working and not paying the bills, how would you not have a nest egg?
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, because my mom shouldn't have be putting money to the side.
SPEAKER_12:That's what I'm saying. But then like, and once you get to like, you're not no one's just moving in willy-nilly with just anyone. Exactly. Once you get to the point where you're moving in with someone, there has to be some type of.
SPEAKER_09:Yes.
SPEAKER_12:So it's either gonna either you're destined to fail or you're destined to make it.
SPEAKER_08:Very rarely. And even if you're not contributing financially, you're still taking care of the house.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, but I just my dream.
SPEAKER_12:Like, if my man could just be like, but no, like.
SPEAKER_06:I'm sorry.
SPEAKER_00:I'm sorry, go ahead. I'm sorry, go ahead.
SPEAKER_06:But no, no, my real. Like, like if he could just take care of the main thing. I just want to rest. And, you know, and just like if I work, it's because I want to work, you know, I'm like um contributing stuff, like you said, to the house. Like, oh, I'm decorating, or when we go on a trip, you know, I'll help us with this. So I just want to keep, you know, my hair and you know, nails done and stuff like that, my stuff for the that kind of stuff. I don't want to feel like if I don't go to work, we're gonna be live living under a bridge type of thing.
SPEAKER_14:Oh my god, when I come home from my hard day of work, I would love for my feet to get rubbed and my food would be fixed. Oh my god, when I wake up in the morning, I would love for breakfast to be already cooked for me. And my aren't my clothes to be ironed, and I would love for a bag rub after long days that I have. But both are far-fetched.
SPEAKER_06:That's a little far-fetched, but it I still think.
SPEAKER_14:We just said, but that's what I'm saying.
SPEAKER_06:You want me to work the nine to five minutes or do that?
SPEAKER_14:No, no, no, no, no, no, no. I'm saying that if I was the full, if I was the full bread provider.
SPEAKER_06:Because I still want to get full provisions.
SPEAKER_14:I don't know. But what is it?
SPEAKER_12:This is not an organ trail.
SPEAKER_09:Like, what are you calling the phone?
SPEAKER_12:I just need to get my provisions.
SPEAKER_06:I mean, but can I put all jokes aside? Like, when I do those things, it's not just cause I I'm doing it because I love you. You know what I'm saying? Number one. I don't ever want to feel like you a pimp and I'm your whole type of thing. You know what I'm saying? I'm doing it, and I hope that you're providing for me because you love me. Yeah. And you love our family. So I feel like it sounds corny, but I feel like if that's the foundation, then it's gonna work. I feel like as long as true love is really the foundation, in any percentage, it should work. And y'all gonna try to make it work because guess what? If it's true, I'm not gonna worry that you're being selfish and try to hold back from it.
SPEAKER_04:So I kind of think the conversation should start with like, what's your goals? What's your goals? And you talk about that, and so then you decide, all right, so we're both gonna work toward our goals, and we want to get to a certain place to be able to do A through Z. Once we're there, like, you know, what's our plan? Like, can I I want to stop working? Cause we're we're here, and you know, if you don't, or or maybe I don't work a full-time job, but I still do my passion and make money off of that. Right. Because I still want to do something, but like I just feel like that's the conversation, it's the goals first. If you ain't got no goals and shit, but then again, that night, that man, nine nine nine, or like whatever, but it's whatever works for y'all.
SPEAKER_14:I said my hand was resting. I was just playing. But but let me ask y'all this, ladies. Let me ask y'all this, right? I can't find a job, right? I'm a guy. I can't find a job. Nobody wants to hire me, but I cook, I clean up the house, I take care of the kids, I make sure they get home, they do the do the homework, I make sure everything's done. But you made way more money than me. And so you're the provider.
SPEAKER_04:I would so do that, like, because the life that I currently live looks nothing like that every other week. So I can't, I can't even really, you know. But to to be a fool, like a working, and I gotta be the mom, and I gotta do the best, and I gotta do the homework, and I gotta do the clothes, and I gotta do, you know, and then I gotta, here's me too, I gotta do that, and then here's you. So I would much rather somebody take all the extra stuff and handle it so that I can like, you know, do my thing if it's that situation where yeah, I make a lot more, so it just makes sense. Like, why would I give up the job?
SPEAKER_06:Because then I we gotta get a give a- But do you want it to be like this is just a temporary thing or this is just how he?
SPEAKER_12:You know that's what I was just thinking. And she said, I just want to take it and give it all to them. And it's like, well, this is not 50-50.
SPEAKER_08:So but but are you are is the guy are you currently like are you looking for a job or is it just kind of oh I'm gonna stay at home dad forever.
SPEAKER_14:I'm on the computer looking. I'm on I'm on the computer looking.
SPEAKER_07:Look at what? Looking at the casting cough.
SPEAKER_14:But no, no, no, no. But look, but so I'm asking I'm I'm asking that question, I'm I'm saying this shamelessly, right? I'm saying this shamelessly. So when I first came home from uh I I used to be locked up, you know, at one point in time, right? And so when I got home from being locked up, it was very difficult for me to find a job, right? Which is and and and dumb as hell as I could be sometimes, I got married three months after being released. So I don't, I don't know. I don't know. No judgment. So my daughter's mother, you know, we cool, but that shit was crazy. But um, but we it lasted for 10 years and we were struggle buddies, you know. Um but in our struggle, we had times where I would have a job she didn't. She had a job, you know, it just went back and forth. But then she grasped and she started to be able to, she got a job, and she started to be able to like grow herself. Right? When I met her, she already had two kids. And we didn't have a kid together. But I helped her and I always like helped her with her kids, so she didn't have to have that burden. And so when she had to stay late, and when she had to like go out of town, or when she had to do whatever she had to do, she didn't have to worry about home and she could pursue her career. So that's why I was asking that question just to see what y'all would say, because sometimes that situation blesses you at the same time. It all depends on how and who you get, because some guys will use that and use it and fuck things up. Yeah. Like I I used it as by the time that she got home, and she could vouch for it. This shit's gonna be on fucking thingy thingy. But by the time that she got home, food was cooked, her kids didn't watch TV during the week. I made them read. And we went outside together. And everything, the laundry, everything was done right, and all her friends used to pick on that shit. But in the midst of it, she was able to get herself to where she wanted to be in life. You know, and I don't I don't ever say that it's it's because of me. But I know what it's like when she would come home stressed out, and I'm like, yo, everything's handled, so go in the room and go finish your shit. You know?
SPEAKER_04:And I have I like that.
SPEAKER_06:Oh, okay.
SPEAKER_04:I have a mentor at work um like that. Like, she she's like a senior vice president, like I'm sure they make a a lot of money. And her husband is a stay-at-home husband, and so he does everything, he cooks. They might have somebody that cleans. I don't know if he cleans. Like, they she's doing her thing, and it just made more sense because he made probably half of what she makes, and they were able to do all the numbers and like look, this makes more sense. And I he he was probably I enjoy this, I want to make sure a daughter's good, and I got this, I got you. Go do you and blow this shit up so we, you know, and I look like if it makes sense, like I'm not mad at it.
SPEAKER_06:I'm not for me, it and I'm just like you said, like it's for them.
SPEAKER_12:Over there, dying because it sounded like the entire thing that you just said, pretty much just boiled down to like I got a pretty good feeling about maids.
SPEAKER_13:In-house child care, maid service.
SPEAKER_12:No, it's not a bad thing.
SPEAKER_06:I'm not I mean, but like y'all said, it's whatever works.
SPEAKER_11:It's a it will be a good thing.
SPEAKER_06:For me, I'm just a little tired. Like I've been, you know, like I moved out when I was like 19. I have you know my place, my car, and I've just been working and working and working and working.
unknown:I'm tired of it.
SPEAKER_14:You want to live the soft life.
SPEAKER_06:I do. At least send my soft medium. You know what I'm saying? But I I am tired, and that's it. That's life. Yeah, and you want to nigga, you gotta work.
SPEAKER_12:You wanna stop, don't you?
SPEAKER_06:Yeah, I'm sure.
SPEAKER_12:Guess what? That's not an option for me. I gotta keep going. I never get to stop. I hope I better find me a MILF. Maybe I can give me one of those. A rich one.
SPEAKER_06:But that is y'all wrong.
SPEAKER_12:But but that's the that's the only thing I had to look for.
SPEAKER_06:And I do, I can't say what it's empathy. I mean, I feel I'm sorry.
SPEAKER_14:I was I was I was raised, and like I said, I don't know how my grandparents were beforehand, but I was raised by them in their purest essence. And for me to sit there and watch Pure Essence, it used to have me wanting it, and a lot of times the people that outside ain't see what I seen, so you can't get refreshing to actually audibly hear two men saying, I'm just gonna have to keep on working.
SPEAKER_06:Because there's so many men.
SPEAKER_11:But I was right, yeah, I've been doing shit.
SPEAKER_14:I was I was I was I was raised watching my grandfather come home from work. And the minute that he got home from work, he went straight to the backyard because he did he did security during the day. And then he worked on he worked on lawnmower engines and lawnmowers and little small engines at nighttime to make extra money. So my my my grandmother would always be in the kitchen cooking and making sure the house was straight. So he didn't have to do shit by the time that he goes in the house. And even when he was in the down there in the I meant, like he would be in there till damn near in the middle of the fucking night, still working on shit. And she would be, I would be up there playing my fucking game. She would get done with a meal and call me from downstairs and like, hey, get this, get this, get this, fix this, this, this, this, this, and take that shit out there for your your grandfather. And I would sit there and watch him get done with whatever he would stop doing. Whatever, and the minute that that plate hit outside, he would stop doing whatever the fuck he was doing and appreciated his woman's food. The minute he walked inside, he would slap on her ass, call her pet, and they would go into the room.
SPEAKER_06:Well, he saw I like a man who knows, and it call me Dixie or whatever, but I like a man who just like kind of settles in his role as a man, just like women can settle in their role as a woman. Like my dad, I didn't grow up with my dad for whatever, but he was always in my life, right? And he always provided for me. So I'll never forget he came to visit because Brooke, my daughter, was having surgery, and he was spending the night and stuff, and it was like, you know, he took us out, you know, whatever we wanted to buy, we bought. But it was like, I don't know, he woke up and he sat down at the at my dining room table, like, where's my breakfast? Like, pretty much like he was going to sit there all day until I got my ass in there and made some breakfast. And but I respected that. Like, you know, no, I'm trying to show you I provided for you. You know what I'm saying? I expect you to provide for me, provide for me in that way. You know what I mean? And he ate and he left his plate right there. You know what I'm saying? It was kind of like, damn. But it was like, I could not get a like some people would get offended by that.
SPEAKER_14:Like, I was just about to say that I was like, some people find find glory in that shit. And some people find disgust in that. And that's where you have to find the the difference.
SPEAKER_06:Because he earned it. You know what I'm saying? He wasn't he wasn't like a deadbeat dad that was still expecting me to do that, just like a man. You know, when I took stuff or do stuff for Chip, my boyfriend, he did earn that. You know what I'm saying? Not only because I love him, but he did earn it. He deserves it.
SPEAKER_14:He did the things for you to make sure that you wouldn't. I'd be happy to do. I always feel like it. No. Of course. I don't want to trust me. Oh no, you good.
SPEAKER_09:I'm stuck in the cigarettes.
SPEAKER_06:Like, I'm out this shit.
SPEAKER_16:Right.
SPEAKER_06:Fuck y'all. Taking my Chavez shirt with me.
SPEAKER_08:I feel bad now because me and my dude, like, I I'm not a breakfast person. I hate breakfast. I when I wake up, I don't have to eat. I don't eat until like maybe lunchtime. So on the weekends, he's like, oh, so are you gonna cook breakfast? I'm like, I'm not a breakfast person. If I'm getting up, it's for you. And he was like, Why do you have to make it seem like you're doing it for me? I don't like that. Like, you should like so we we don't get into it, but it's kind of like he was like, You eat breakfast. Like, if I go get something, you said you're gonna want something. So you do like breakfast. Yeah, but I'm just like, but I don't like to cook breakfast. I don't know, it's weird. So I I'm now that we're having this conversation, I'm like, okay, maybe I do need to like she she's pointing and looking at us in the microphones that way. Oh, you should sorry. I know I talk really low.
SPEAKER_14:Yeah, there we go.
SPEAKER_08:That's real life. Yeah, talking about breakfast in the morning. Yeah, I just need to make that a priority. Just make breakfast.
SPEAKER_14:I know I know for for me, I don't my woman would not have to necessarily know how to cook because I like to cook myself. So it is something for me to like to wake up in. I'm an early bird anyway. I wake up super early, so I like to do that. So if I meet somebody, the the wow factor is not because you can cook. You know, so you have to always know that individual as an individual like yours. Like you have to find out what it is for that person. Like, your guy likes sports.
SPEAKER_07:Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:So you would know that I know that night sucks. He loves sports up and you could find something that that does it for him in sports. Uh, like he said, you know, you might have a guy that likes when he wakes up in the morning and he spells coffee and bacon. And a lot of times because it's what he's raised on.
SPEAKER_08:Yeah, yeah. Yeah. You know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_14:And so if it's something that that person is raised on, the expectation is high. Now, he don't always get it, but if you can't provide it, just know that there's an extra level that you can make it with him. You know, or her, because at the same time, you know, something that I used to learn that was very silly for my grandmother. My grandmother used to love for me just to comb her hair.
SPEAKER_01:Please.
SPEAKER_14:But but literally, you know, I would go and go in my grandmother's room and get a comb and just sit there and when we have conversations, I would comb her hair while we had conversations. And so it slowly teaches you how to love and care for somebody.
SPEAKER_09:Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:And that's why, even with my daughters, like she's so aggravating. Like, she'll ignore me all day and then want cuddles and want to come lay in my bed for five minutes, get cuddling out the way, and then she's going back. I say, Oh, okay, she must need it, she must need a little love. She got it. She got it, and now she's like, Alright, fuck you. Like, I don't need it no more, but I need it for some and and I never question her. Sometimes she'll hold me tight. You know, sometimes is it just I wanna I wanna lay next to you.
SPEAKER_06:Sometimes I could feel that something's wrong, yeah, and I'll just squeeze and you always know, like, like Sade Brooklyn came in the room with me because we was about to call her little friend's mom for her to go out, and she came and she was like leaning on me. I was in heaven. You know what I mean?
SPEAKER_07:That's what I did with everything.
SPEAKER_06:You had to put it on like you know, I'm just looking like she's on there, like, you know, I'm just gonna go. She has turned me into a sucker. For real. Like, that's so sweet though.
SPEAKER_14:My daughter made me sense more sensitive towards like um like females. That's it. When my daughter moved, when my daughter first moved with me, we bumped heads like crazy.
SPEAKER_07:She used to be like, Dad, why do you have to be so aggressive? I was like, you need to learn how to deal with men.
SPEAKER_14:And so we used to clash so much when she when she first was together, when we first got together, but it was it was very, it was very awakening to know that women's emotionals are fragile.
SPEAKER_08:Oh, can I talk about that? So my dude, my dude is from New Orleans, and he is so aggressive. Not and it's nothing that's like, you y'all heard him on the phone So it's like when we first started dating, when he's talking, like an average person would take offense, but he'd be like, yo, I don't want and I'm like, bruh, like calm the fuck down. I was like, I'm not one of your homeboys, you gotta this all this shit. I was like, you gotta calm it down. And it's crazy because the other day he was like, you taught me how to be more soft. He was like, because I'm not used to and I was like, yeah, like the way you talk to me, it hurts my fucking feelings. Like I know you don't mean it that way, but you calm hard, yeah, it's hard. Like you gotta calm it down. So yeah, so yeah, I'm I appreciate that. And like grew from that.
SPEAKER_04:I had to do that with my dad too, because it was like he my dad was very like, you know, like y'all knew my dad, but like he was very like for like forceful at times, and you know, like just yell if he was upset. And I don't like to this day I don't do deal with like yelling well, like don't yell at me. It's very triggering, but um, you know, but it's like I had to kind of tell him like because I have three brothers, two older, so it's like you had two sons, and then you're kind of talking to me the same way. It's like I you can't talk to me like that. Like I I don't I don't deal well like that. Cause after you've done all that, then I don't think you like me. So I'm not gonna I'm not gonna try to, you know, talk to you or you know, like no.
SPEAKER_06:So see, and it's funny because like the men in my life, like my grandfather and my dad, they were very like quiet and reserved. Yeah, he was very he was right there. He was like peace. And they were like, you know, just like not punks, but like passive aggressive, like they didn't like no confrontation. And if I be damned, if Chip is not so passive aggressive, you know what I'm saying? It takes a lot to get him there. You know what I mean? So it's like I took on kind of like my grandmother. We gonna say what the hell we got to say. You know what I'm saying? That could be a bad thing.
SPEAKER_14:No, it's not. No, it's not.
SPEAKER_06:But no, it's the way that I say it though.
SPEAKER_14:It could be. But it's like, you know, right.
SPEAKER_06:I can't talk to him like my grandmother talked to my grandfather because that was not good.
SPEAKER_14:Most, most men, most, you know, they be like, men always look for crazy women, right? It's really not that men look for crazy women. Men are strong. And a lot of times a men, a man that's strong wants a woman that's not strong but vicious. I need you to walk ahead of me. And you, you, if somebody, you, you can you ever see like certain niggas when they have a uh a female that as very opinionated or they they I don't give a fuck. And he's just sitting back like I wish a motherfucker. For yeah, because he wants her, because he doesn't like for like me, for instance, right? I'm I don't like doing all the talking and all that shit, right? And I don't I don't like being a representation for myself sometimes. So if I had somebody that was up front or out front and it's like, yo, like, make motherfucking duck, this needs to be this, and we need this to be this, and I'm like, yeah, shit, yeah, that's what that's what she said. Well, that's what she wants. Yeah, that's that's that's that's how I feel. You know, but we don't like with the order. We don't we don't got that a lot of times, and and sometimes it feels so out of place. Because, like I said, y'all don't feel safe no more.
SPEAKER_06:Well, see, like with with chip, I I do. Like, you know what I mean? Because like I'm like the one that's always, you know, bubbly and I'm gonna be talking. He until he gets to know you, he just sitting there like, that's not a thing. Mm-hmm. You know, my sisters at first didn't like him, like, why is he what's wrong with him? Why is he so quiet that then he opened up? But like you said, like he'll let me talk and all that, but it's like he just he looking. Because he went, he looking for it. Is a nigga looking at her the wrong way, like he wanna say something to her, am I gonna have he's actually have to say stuff to me like hey, then you know, kinda tone it down. Because if somebody comes at you, then I'ma be ready. I don't talk. You know what I mean? And he's skinny, and I don't know whether he still has heart, which I love about him. You know what I mean? So it's kinda I kinda it's a little bit of both.
SPEAKER_14:I had you know. I had to save one of my exes one time because I like I said, I I like that type of shit, right? And so one time I was dating somebody and they had she had started with two, it was two females that was outside of a car. And she was like, and I was trying to park, and they parked fucked up when I was trying to park at the same time. So she got mad about that shit. Me, I'm just you know, quiet. I'm like, I parked, I'm good. She got out of the car like, this don't make no fucking sense that these motherfuckers can't park. And I'm looking. And that's what I'm trying to try to tell her. And so the two girls turned around, and you can tell that's Ratchet One and Ratchet 2. I was like, you about to get your ass whooped. So I had to be like, Y'all touch my girl, I promise you. I don't really fuck with women, but I'ma fuck y'all up. And that oh, so that's what you gonna do. You gonna hit a woman, you gonna hit. I ain't had no intentions in hitting. But I knew that y'all motherfuckers was gonna think twice about touching my woman.
SPEAKER_06:Women need to stop doing that shit because it done got a lot of men killed. I agree. Don't do that shit. Sit your ass down. I agree. Don't try to escalate. And if I do fight, hey, it's just gonna be me and her, whatever. You just make sure the police don't come. But I ain't finna be rah-yeah to no does and all that. Don't do that.
SPEAKER_14:This day and age, you don't want to stop doing that. These days, it's one on twenty.
unknown:Yeah, that's not cool.
SPEAKER_14:And so when I seen that happen, I was like, Michael, what are you gonna do? I was like, man, shut up and just say something. Nigga, you're big.
SPEAKER_06:I wouldn't want to have to put my man in a place to have to do that. And you shouldn't, yeah. Not over six. I'm too long now anyway.
SPEAKER_14:But but but this then age, it happens.
SPEAKER_06:It stops. Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:And this then, like you could be you could be a regular employee at McDonald's and somebody comes in and starts some shit with you. I'm gonna walk in the game. It does not. It sounds good just walking away until somebody snatched that goddamn head.
SPEAKER_12:Yeah, you think it's all pulls you back. You think it's all fun and games till you get a fish filet in the face.
SPEAKER_06:But then that's when you done turned it physical.
SPEAKER_12:Uh-oh.
SPEAKER_06:And now, uh-oh. It's sick of us.
SPEAKER_14:It is.
SPEAKER_06:It's it looked like it's still.
SPEAKER_14:Well, no, yeah, the visual.
SPEAKER_06:Oh, so we just audible now.
SPEAKER_14:Yeah. Hello. Yeah, yeah, y'all done, y'all done wore out.
SPEAKER_01:Sexy singles. First one, if you would like a after dark.
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SPEAKER_08:The 30-year-old that you dated, what was his username?
unknown:I don't forgot.
SPEAKER_06:That was weird.
SPEAKER_11:But all you can't remember his real name.
SPEAKER_06:And I'll say Dwight. I remember his name, but he needs to be exposed. Oh yeah. Dwight.
SPEAKER_15:Old ass nigga.
SPEAKER_04:Praying on kids. On the check.
SPEAKER_06:Like you came and got me from school, so you can't say you didn't know how old I was the minor. So can we cut that?
SPEAKER_14:Even though she only says your first name, you pervert. We still covered the white. You fucking pervert.
SPEAKER_12:We know a lot of the whites. You fucking gay bitch.
SPEAKER_08:Thank you. The only the white I know is from the office. So as a character.
SPEAKER_14:So I guess since we're out of film and we are at almost three hours in.
SPEAKER_06:No, wow, that would not bad. It sure did.
SPEAKER_14:I enjoyed y'all. It's so much fun. I appreciate everybody coming by. And yeah, this was an amazing conversation.
SPEAKER_08:Like it's more that we need to talk about.
SPEAKER_04:I know we didn't even.
SPEAKER_06:We didn't even get to the like shoes. We'll be back. We need to make this happen again.
SPEAKER_14:And and also, and also, I don't know if if if Seven was mentioning it, but I'm trying to create a network. Oh, I think. And I have a couple of, I want to have a couple of slots, and I would love for y'all if y'all create a show that, you know, I would help y'all with it. You know?
SPEAKER_06:Oh, absolutely.
SPEAKER_04:And we can come up with a name.
SPEAKER_06:Right.
SPEAKER_04:We can bring into a name. What did we say out there, girl? Girl is just us. But yeah.
SPEAKER_12:You might as well just call that girl is just us. Girl is just us. Yeah.
SPEAKER_15:Girl, it's just us. No.
SPEAKER_04:I like say what was it? Say that. Hey, it's it. Say this.
SPEAKER_06:We should just that's because we fell in love with it. I think we should keep it.
SPEAKER_14:So be on the lookout for say it's or whatever. Say that sis. Whatever. Or whatever they come up with whatever that whatever they finalize and come up with.
SPEAKER_12:Say that sis.
SPEAKER_14:But just know that, you know, God damn it. We are working. And don't forget about don't forget about climbing out of Pandora's box. It's still in the making. Climbing out of Pandora's box will be out soon.
SPEAKER_06:How did you get in? Her name is Pandora and he climbed out of her box.
SPEAKER_08:But how did he get in the box to climb in? That's what I'm saying.
SPEAKER_06:Is this a porn?
SPEAKER_04:What is the box?
SPEAKER_08:No, for real. What is it? Is it certain parts? Because, like, how did he get in the box? I'm curious.
SPEAKER_12:Do you see how degenerative is? I'm just listening. I'm just listening.
SPEAKER_14:Yeah, give it to me. All of it. All the sauce.
SPEAKER_08:Climbing out of Pandora's wasn't hard to get out of here.
SPEAKER_12:It's just a porn. Sometimes it's like, no, it's not a porn.
SPEAKER_14:Sometimes you can get lost in Pandora's box.
SPEAKER_08:It does sound like it.
SPEAKER_14:It does sound like a porn. So that's not episode. So so so it would. I think Tubi would love my movie.
SPEAKER_08:Toby, Tubi has some good movies, though.
SPEAKER_14:I think Tubi would love. I agree. I got enough equipment to do my own Tubi movie, damn it. I got a lot of stuff in that closet, god damn it. Oh shit. And I know it.
SPEAKER_13:I'm telling you. Don't worry about what I got in that closet over there. You know what I mean?
SPEAKER_08:That's what I said.
SPEAKER_15:That too.
SPEAKER_08:That's when the card is out of the memory card is out of space. Memory card is out of space, man.
SPEAKER_14:I got a lot of things going on in that shit. Oh, I'm just playing. Add it one more. The name again. Your name is so popular.
SPEAKER_02:Oh, you did just edit. I didn't even realize that.
SPEAKER_14:See, I'm trying to save you. You know what I'm saying?
SPEAKER_07:No, don't even put that in there.
SPEAKER_14:It's the race, it's the race instantly. You're never getting fired. You're getting promoted tomorrow.
unknown:Tomorrow.
SPEAKER_14:Speak that into existence.
SPEAKER_06:Before we go out, first impressions. Like, wait, what you know, I wanna be getting from each other. Even though I ain't gonna go first.
SPEAKER_04:I know y'all. Right. So I ain't got nothing to say because I've seen everybody before.
SPEAKER_14:You would like to know our impressions on you guys?
SPEAKER_04:Yeah, like how yeah.
SPEAKER_06:Like how? What did we do? Yeah, first impressions or whatever. I guess first impression on uh the host. Um it was like I wouldn't know that you went through a lot of stuff that you went through. I was like, oh damn. You know what I'm saying? I really do think you were a hard worker and you not one of them lazy men that just want to make excuses. I really do think you you came up. You know what I'm saying? I think that's really commendable.
SPEAKER_10:Thank you.
SPEAKER_06:Um you can turn his mic back on.
SPEAKER_07:I think I wouldn't even look at you.
SPEAKER_06:I just think you're real, I think you're really cool with that. I think that you keep a lot of things in afraid of how somebody might respond when you really do have good things to say and you should say it. That's what I think so.
SPEAKER_05:Oh, look at it.
SPEAKER_13:Oh, I don't want to say it. And then he says something.
SPEAKER_14:Something something that something that's funny is we had a conversation just earlier. He'd probably get mad at me for saying this. But he was questioning about coming period because sometimes he feels like he put his foot in his mouth. And I told him, I said, a lot of times that makes good for good entertainment and good, you know, conversation. I don't want to be a fucking clown though.
SPEAKER_12:That's what I don't want to do. I don't think that's what I'm saying. That's kind of what I was getting at. Yeah, nobody feels like you're a clown. I know. All right.
SPEAKER_04:I think we all had like pre- not me today, but like, you know, everybody was kind of feeling I did. Everybody was kind of feeling a way like I don't know about this, or I don't want to do that, or I don't, you know, everybody's coming into it thinking something, but nobody, like most of the people who watch podcasts are watching it because they enjoy the person the people. The personality of the person. So they're coming with love, they're coming with good energy, hopefully. I mean, there are the haters, but we don't care about this, right? Right. That's what you had to tell me. That's what I said earlier. Yeah. Like, you know what? Those are not our people. The people that hype us up, and yeah, a lot of keyboard gangsters out there. Right.
SPEAKER_14:The coolest thing about stuff like this is you never know who wants to listen to you.
SPEAKER_06:Yeah.
SPEAKER_14:So the coolest thing about the Unbreakable Black Man podcast, my second most popular uh group of you know, group of individuals that listen to me is from Germany.
unknown:Wow.
SPEAKER_14:Number two, number three, Hong Kong.
SPEAKER_12:Whites again, shout out whites again, Germany. Here we go, baby.
SPEAKER_06:Okay, okay, okay. Okay, so is is he where were your first impressions of Billy?
SPEAKER_12:Are we actually doing this? What are your pre uh I think cool, cool, cool, cool. I think uh you're all cool. Yeah, you're all cool.
SPEAKER_08:I want you to say how you really feel. Like the substance like this. How do you get some substance in there?
SPEAKER_14:Cooperate.
SPEAKER_15:What is it with this awkward? It's been doing this whole night.
SPEAKER_08:I feel like that's more, but he's just shy.
SPEAKER_12:They're trying to pull shit out of it.
SPEAKER_15:He's an onion.
SPEAKER_12:He's trying to they're trying to peel back the onion. Oh well, I'm an ogre.
SPEAKER_09:Climb out of Pandora's box.
SPEAKER_12:This isn't a oh, who said that?
SPEAKER_01:Face face, please join us. Join us.
SPEAKER_07:No, stay the fuck out of my box. Stay the fuck out.
SPEAKER_12:Yeah, get the fuck out of my swamp. Shrek.
SPEAKER_14:That's funny. I think I think my first impressions on you guys was very bubbly from the junk. So when I was making north, I I was even even even before Billy got here, I could hear you guys' conversation from the shower. I'm sitting here like, I thought, I thought everybody was already here. I swear to God. I was like, I said, I said, oh, they both must have got here already. And I'm sitting here trying to get myself together and get ready. I come out there and it's just two of you. And I'm like, where was the crowd? Like I heard multiple people talking. But just with that right there, I was like, this will be cool because you know, you don't want nobody that's a mute. You don't want nobody that don't have no personality. You want them to have personality. And then when Billy came in, it seemed right. Hey, as y'all see, yeah, y'all hear every time we say Billy, everybody starts laughing. So figure this shit out. Her name's not Billy.
SPEAKER_15:Like, that's it gotta be a joke.
SPEAKER_08:Like everybody's I just watched Sex Life on her name. It's a show on um Netflix called Sex Life and her name is Billy.
SPEAKER_12:Bro, Billy. She was looking around going, who's Billy?
unknown:Right.
SPEAKER_12:She never got her name.
SPEAKER_08:Billy. Alright, Billy is out.
SPEAKER_14:I I I love it when people could be real on microphones. Some people are scared to say how they feel on microphones. But for me, I ain't gonna lie, when I first crunked this up, you know, me and James, we worked together, you know, we've been working together for years. And we've switched between three companies together. And I remember when I first, when I first started this, I used to feel so weird. But it felt so nice and so cool to hear myself back, hear the things that I would say and my thoughts and those things. And I'll be like, oh my god, you're right, motherfucker. I'll be sitting here talking to myself. Because, you know, it it's a it's a very different experience, and it's cool to be able to experience it with a group of people because you get to like you'll listen to this episode three, four, or five times and get something new every time out of.
SPEAKER_06:He can't wait until I get you gotta play what she wiped her ass from the home.
SPEAKER_02:Oh my gosh. That's okay. Oh my gosh. That's sweet.
SPEAKER_08:Not nothing he probably don't already. Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_03:Right.
SPEAKER_14:So, so as we come up on three hours, I'm gonna go ahead and close this thing on out. And and just thanks everybody that came out today and experienced the Unbreakable Black Male Podcast experience. Yeah, uh, I hope that's I hope that you guys come out more. Y'all, thank you so much. Nah, no problem. I hope that y'all come out more. You know, I I enjoyed it.
SPEAKER_04:This has been fun.
SPEAKER_14:I do. It was really nice meeting you guys. Like with the eyes, like, hold up, they can't see it, so we gotta tell them. She rolled her eyes when she said that.
SPEAKER_16:I think they heard the jokingly. They heard it.
SPEAKER_13:They heard it, they heard it in her voice.
SPEAKER_12:That's fine. You and you, and you and you, and you're gonna love me.
SPEAKER_06:We can't have anything.
